No lie I'm 33 and fear a chick creating scene even though its unlikely to happen
I think another thing folks sleeping on for nikkas who get women is the whole "Ima expose you" with fake shyt when a woman doesn't get her way or y'all break up. Like spreading your pics on Facebook groups, getting you messed up at your job, etc.
People conflating a lot of different issues.
I think most men can agree these chicks aint worth the headache on avg. From then you have dudes who find happiness in other things and more so deal with chicks who choose up (only a monority of men can do this lol), dudes who find happiness via hobbies and just deal with women in those social circles (this can be tough because most women now are hermits which is why they so hell bent on going out to escape the cycle of work and TikTok at home), and then you have the dudes who like fukk it Im gonna lay flat and just stick to video games and porn.
With the dudes who want to lay flat, to me that shyt is corny as we should live life to the fullest, but I can't force them to do shyt, but I won't dismiss their bucket is still a result of the overlying issue.
People dont value mens lives this is why nikkas always dismiss shyt, and this is why this country is in shambles because all levels of men look at each other as fukking useless, young brehs look at older nikkas are useless simps who got us in this position, while older nikkas look at young nikkas like "y'all soft" even though they were called soft by the men before them lol.