Someone help a breh out!

[NeilCartwright]

I get approached/complimented fairly often. I was in Texas bc of work for 6 weeks and at the time I had a roster of 3 women back home. It was all good till I came back

2 of em flaked on me on back to back days, soon as I came back. I felt like they disrespected me time so I'm tossing them to the bushes. I have one left on the roster here and met another in Texas. She'll be down here in 2 wks.

Then yesterday I'm buying some dress shoes and the woman ringing me up asks if I act or If I'm a modelso I strike up a convo. She gives me her IG and Facebook. I DM her but she doesn't hit me back

Breh someone tell me what I'm doing wrong with these women lol. I can attract them but for some reason I can't close the deal at times. I workout (that's usually a conversation starter), make good $$, and got my own place. But I'm legitimately confused

 

[LightSkinYeshua]

 

[dterpsss]

you keep missing "the moment"

 

[ndthentherewasx]

I too have this problem.. sorry



Get like 10 numbers when im out and only 2 will reply, answer, etc

Search the number on Facebook, hit em up there and I get the same bullshyt


These women man

 

[TL15]

Sounds like you aren't aggressive enough

Women like to be pursued... They are giving you the signs to pursue them in person and you are waiting until you are at home

If a woman gives you her IG why not ask her for her number or initiate further conversation in person... If you are "always" getting approached then you need to make them feel like their efforts are worth it...

 

[Jean Jacket]

THEY THINK YOU ARE GAY.

 

[NeilCartwright]

you keep missing "the moment"

And what is the moment?

And the thing is I'm a humble dude. I'm not out here on social media putting up 100 selfies and Shii. These are just through organic meetings.

Only thing I can think of that might be it is
-I don't have a large social circle
-I don't brag at all. For the longest ppl didn't know I worked. On some Tommy Strawn type stuff

Other than that idk

 

[NeilCartwright]

Sounds like you aren't aggressive enough

Women like to be pursued... They are giving you the signs to pursue them in person and you are waiting until you are at home

If a woman gives you her IG why not ask her for her number or initiate further conversation in person... If you are "always" getting approached then you need to make them feel like their efforts are worth it...

Breh with that woman at the shoe store I asked for her number but she insisted that she only give me her IG and Facebook

 

[TL15]

Breh with that woman at the shoe store I asked for her number but she insisted that she only give me her IG and Facebook

My bad if I misread it. I would say just go after women you are interested in more than letting them start the conversation...

Maybe you've hit a good spot and you can climb up the ladder of the caliber of female you're messing with. If cute girls are hittin on you, start spittin at dimes