Something I noticed about dating in my 30s

Yagirlcheatinonus

Icon Poster
Joined
May 26, 2012
Messages
11,323
Reputation
-113
Daps
18,488
Reppin
NULL
I noticed this in my 20s as well but I was in a relationship most of my 20s. As men when we settle in our 30s get our money and living situation correct. Is it just me or do y’all run into a lot of married women willing to cheat? Or chicks with dudes willing to cheat? Was the game like this back in the day too? I mean it’s a lot of women out here that don’t respect or value their marriage/relationship.
 

jadillac

Veteran
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
56,075
Reputation
9,124
Daps
172,951
I don't meet many like that, but then again, for me, a woman might as well not exist if she's married. I don't even hold a conversation with them unless we're legit friends like co-workers, etc.

If you're attractive and taken I have no dealing with you bc I want no part of that
 

Ohene

Free Sheist
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
76,448
Reputation
6,957
Daps
133,401
Reppin
Toronto
I don't meet many like that, but then again, for me, a woman might as well not exist if she's married. I don't even hold a conversation with them unless we're legit friends like co-workers, etc.

If you're attractive and taken I have no dealing with you bc I want no part of that
this

i dont talk to or probe to the point where i would even know

@OP do these girls come after you randomly?
 

MicIsGod

They like what that mean
Joined
May 3, 2012
Messages
22,429
Reputation
1,402
Daps
45,770
Reppin
Atl
the more surprising part is them ever telling me they are married. Thick older chick I hit for awhile, I didn’t know she was married until my friend said he saw her out with a big ring one day.

Women cheat very different and are just hard to catch. They do it on vacation with the girls. They do it at an office party in the bathroom. They do it when they’re getting groceries. Admittedly, it’s made my outlook a little jaded. Hope I recover one day.
 

Yagirlcheatinonus

Icon Poster
Joined
May 26, 2012
Messages
11,323
Reputation
-113
Daps
18,488
Reppin
NULL
this

i dont talk to or probe to the point where i would even know

@OP do these girls come after you randomly?
I mean I still cold approach case in point. I was talking to this thick chocolate broad at the bank earlier. She smiled at me when she was in line so I caught her outside chopped it up with her she told me she had a dude but we can still be cool. I was like “Nah if I see you again and you single we can get to know each other”.
 

Sauce and Footwork

Superstar
Joined
Mar 11, 2022
Messages
4,164
Reputation
1,513
Daps
20,279
I noticed this in my 20s as well but I was in a relationship most of my 20s. As men when we settle in our 30s get our money and living situation correct. Is it just me or do y’all run into a lot of married women willing to cheat? Or chicks with dudes willing to cheat? Was the game like this back in the day too? I mean it’s a lot of women out here that don’t respect or value their marriage/relationship.
It works both ways. I’m married, but have had Married chicks from work come at me or try calling me and shyt which I won’t answer. But def the dudes I work with who are married in the same shyt trying to get at women at work. It’s always been this way . Too many people don’t take they marriages seriously. I admit I think it’s worse now for people because social media.
 

Yagirlcheatinonus

Icon Poster
Joined
May 26, 2012
Messages
11,323
Reputation
-113
Daps
18,488
Reppin
NULL
Not really. It's just that because you got your money up. Women that would have had nothing to do with you are now intrigued.

Women are just a lot more clever in their cheating. Men will take ease of access and availability above anything.
I think so when you getting that dough they know. Not to brag I bought a 2000 watch from the jewelry store cash chick was looking:banderas:
 

Yagirlcheatinonus

Icon Poster
Joined
May 26, 2012
Messages
11,323
Reputation
-113
Daps
18,488
Reppin
NULL
It works both ways. I’m married, but have had Married chicks from work come at me or try calling me and shyt which I won’t answer. But def the dudes I work with who are married in the same shyt trying to get at women at work. It’s always been this way . Too many people don’t take the marriages seriously. I admit I think it’s worse now for people because social media.
I think a lot of cheating starts on the job. I’ve heard a woman say “I’m going to give you some but you can’t fall in love. I love my husband”. So I question is there a rise in infidelity or has it always been like this?
 
Top