Something I noticed about dating in my 30s

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Man I’m in my 30s….


I got older joints in their 40s willing to cheat, send me unsolicited nudes, and all that shiit…


I really feel for one girls husband cuz they are in marriage counseling yet she made a video last week telling me “cum in my p*ssy”


Cold game…

I thought you were in a relationship now ?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I noticed this in my 20s as well but I was in a relationship most of my 20s. As men when we settle in our 30s get our money and living situation correct. Is it just me or do y’all run into a lot of married women willing to cheat? Or chicks with dudes willing to cheat? Was the game like this back in the day too? I mean it’s a lot of women out here that don’t respect or value their marriage/relationship.

As a mid-40s breh-uelo, it don't stop in your 30s, b.

...and don't have ya shyt in order too.

I barely have my stuff going in my early 40s and it’s still crazy what I’m occasionally able to pull

Man if u got any type of value or motion all these hoes going.

I was exactly like op locked down in most of my 20s then single in my 30s.

the more surprising part is them ever telling me they are married. Thick older chick I hit for awhile, I didn’t know she was married until my friend said he saw her out with a big ring one day.

Women cheat very different and are just hard to catch. They do it on vacation with the girls. They do it at an office party in the bathroom. They do it when they’re getting groceries. Admittedly, it’s made my outlook a little jaded. Hope I recover one day.

Are y'all in shape? Do y'all know what the husbands be looking like?

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Are y'all in shape? Do y'all know what the husbands be looking like?

Yeah I take care of myself go to the gym 6 figures a year own crib couple bank accounts not bragging though. I’ve noticed they marry guys they may not really be physically attracted to but they sleep with who they want to. Do you think it’s because they figure the guy invested however many years and he won’t leave? I’d rather leave than deal with a woman that cheat. I feel I done so much dirt that when I settle karma will come.

 

[MicIsGod]

Are y'all in shape? Do y'all know what the husbands be looking like?

I’m speaking as someone who got in really good shape and not the financial side. I do okay there but pretty average at this point. The experience is jarring. The one guy I did see he was just an average looking guy.

 

[Estarossa]

Women love talkin shít about they man to me… they need to cut that shít out cuz I know where that conversation leads.

 

[TRUEST]

I noticed this in my 20s as well but I was in a relationship most of my 20s. As men when we settle in our 30s get our money and living situation correct. Is it just me or do y’all run into a lot of married women willing to cheat? Or chicks with dudes willing to cheat? Was the game like this back in the day too? I mean it’s a lot of women out here that don’t respect or value their marriage/relationship.

Don’t let it get to your head. If you had been the schmuck they married, she would thirsting for some random dude just as much. It’s all to do with the new. The different.

 

[jadillac]

this

i dont talk to or probe to the point where i would even know

@OP do these girls come after you randomly?

The thing is, most of them just want attention that they lack at home bc they've beaten the husband into not wanting to talk anymore lol.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

Women love talkin shít about they man to me… they need to cut that shít out cuz I know where that conversation leads.

The wildest part is when they pretend it justifies fukking with another breh and want you to pretend with them instead of just admitting they’re low key sluts that like outside dikk.

I used to tell women I don’t wanna hear shyt about their dude. It’s none of my business and it’s not what I’m here for. I’m not a therapist.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Don’t let it get to your head. If you had been the schmuck they married, she would thirsting for some random dude just as much. It’s all to do with the new. The different.

That’s the thing I don’t want my experiences to prevent me from getting married and settling. I’ve been cheated in in the past and I’ve been the dude they cheat with. I feel like because I’ve seen a woman’s nature it has created trust issues with women. I almost expect them to not be shyt. Not trying to be cold by saying that.

 

[brickfare]

Are y'all in shape? Do y'all know what the husbands be looking like?

I look really young for my age, also weigh about what I weighed at age 18 and am 6 ft/nerdy/super slim. she lives in another city and I’ve only seen the spouse pictured maybe twice, but he’s an average cac with a thick brown ting for a wife

 

[DonRe]

OP i think it may be that your social surroundings changed and now in your age group where more women, being in thier 30’s have settled for less or whatever it is, and are open to getting fukked randomly.

But one thing that has shocked me in my 30’s is how women do value relationships less. And while maybe good people and talk a good talk about cheating, dont live what they preach and are cool with cheating and/or cheating with men in relationships

 

[Estarossa]

The wildest part is when they pretend it justifies fukking with another breh and want you to pretend with them instead of just admitting they’re low key sluts that like outside dikk.

I used to tell women I don’t wanna hear shyt about their dude. It’s none of my business and it’s not what I’m here for. I’m not a therapist.

I had to start changing the subject… two broads at my last job were egregious. One was always talmbout leaving her husband while showing me naked pics and videos even after the nígga got outta jail and would come to the job.

The other would complain about her bf and when he would come up there she would give me the “fukk me” eyes whenever he wasn’t looking. She was always tryna act innocent and oblivious. Glad I work from home now…

 

[King Poetic]

Once i hit my mid 30s , I started to attract hella of baby mamas and they were desperate as fukk

A lot of the women in their 30s and above without kids was like dudes, meaning they weighing their options and fukking left and right especially here in LA, I don’t know anywhere else

 

[2 one 3]

I thought you were in a relationship now ?

I was but it ended shorty after Valentine’s Day…

Wish it woulda happened before…

 

[2 one 3]

Once i hit my mid 30s , I started to attract hella of baby mamas and they were desperate as fukk

A lot of the women in their 30s and above without kids was like dudes, meaning they weighing their options and fukking left and right especially here in LA, I don’t know anywhere else

Yea man the single women out here with no kids are funny af..


There is one who is 39 and one who was like 45 or 46. They both have booked mad trips this year at least three international trips between them both.

They expect to be taken out to four star or five star restaurants every weekend and even though they are hitting six figures they expect you to pay for everything…


I told the 45-year-old straight up I need to be paid for my services… and she was talking this dumb shyt about how I could even mention that to her, and I must not respect her.

She went MIA for one day before she started texting me this past Thursday only to let me know that she booked a weekend getaway the first weekend of March and is asking if I can come stay with her…

These hoes are crazy breh…