Something I noticed about dating in my 30s
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BushidoBrown
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its a very thin line between maintaining a positive outlook and being completely delusional
Bigen King
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Made a post about getting a number at the club from a women who looked like the singer that sang shorty swing my way. Found out that she was or is married and ended up having to cut it off.
Oldschooler
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The ones that settle down too early end up getting bored in their relationships and become rebellious in their 30s. Also my feeling is because they're older there's no negative stigma on dating older men in their 40s. A hoe in her 20s at her prime looks wise will get clowned socially for dating a 40 plus man. Me personally I stay away from drama as my peace is my ultimate priority first and foremost. So I would not take a cheating woman.
Oldschooler
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Cheating happens in the workplace because that's where we spend the most amount of time during our lives. So it's natural that you start developing a crush for someone. But not all professions have this. I'm on a nerdy male dominated field. I'm sure if I was in a large corporation like a bank I would get fired or accused for harassment. Imagine if you're in a female dominated profession like HR or nursing.
lol thats the fukked up thing
women will have a perfectly good man, and then test/disrspect him to a point of castration...only to go out and look for another
yall can have that lol
dumb comment
Henny and_ HotWings
A well seasoned nikka
I remember during the pandemic, I met a THICK ASS pretty ass brownskin Nigerian broad while I was out doing doorDash….
I booked her
A FULL THREE DAYS into talking, she finally informs me she is married and asked if that would be a problem… and says she will never get me caught up with her husband that I can trust her.
Mind you she was a guidance counselor for middle school girls….
I could keep going but the point is, these broads are nothing but nikkas with vaginas now a days… 70% of them cheat now a days
That’s why I tell nikkas, if you wanna be in a relationship with a broad now a days and NOT get cheated on you need to:
1) not ignore red flags and skeptical points when first meeting these hoes… if it raises your eyebrows even just a little bit, ghost that bytch or just fukk and keep it moving.
2) make sure you’re in good physical shape… don’t be a fat nikka or nikka with a soft belly and bird chest… she’ll be cheating on you with a nfl player or some fit guy from the gym she goes to. Or even worse, a personal trainer
3) make sure your money is right… you don’t want a bytch cheating on you cuz you’re always broke, can’t take her no where and always struggling with bills… that can drive even a faithful chick to cheat.
4) even if your married don’t treat your spouse like you “live” for them… after a while, this tends to turn SOME (not all) women off after a few years… sometimes women actually wanna be savagely dikked down and treated like a worthless whore believe it or not… but you having the swag of a virgin catholic priest can get boring to them after a while and cause them to look for “excitement” elsewhere.
5) don’t get married until you are between 32-36…. Let these chicks go through their hoe phase and make sure you’ve gotten your cheating/fukking out of your system too… if you scoop a chick up too young, after 10-20 years of marriage, she will feel like she missed out on a bunch or fun times in her life. And she’ll end up having a mid life crisis once she hits 40 and you’ll catch her sexting a dude 18 years younger than her… nasty work
Also if your broad knows you’re cheating or have cheated, this can cause her to look for revenge… and her revenge is gonna be her finding a nikka to treat her like a cum bucket… all just to spite you. And if she actually enjoys it, she may NEVER stop cheating on you.
7) avoid broads that still feel the need to go the clubs and bars on a consistent basis, avoid chicks that are ALWAYS traveling (you think they just going out of town cuz they like to be by the “water”
). These chicks get to be complete hoes out of town and come home with a clean slate.
8) Avoid broads that are always showing a shyt ton of skin/booty/t*ts…. Sometimes it’s hot out and sometimes they just like to dress like that. But in many cases, these how’s are “advertising”
9) never wife a woman who is constantly surrounded by powerful men (ex: professional ball players, rappers, celebrities, executives/bosses from her work place). Women love power and are turned on by it. It’s in their nature… so if she’s constantly around these types of men. It can end back if you’re just an “average Joe”
I booked her
A FULL THREE DAYS into talking, she finally informs me she is married and asked if that would be a problem… and says she will never get me caught up with her husband that I can trust her.
Mind you she was a guidance counselor for middle school girls….
I could keep going but the point is, these broads are nothing but nikkas with vaginas now a days… 70% of them cheat now a days
That’s why I tell nikkas, if you wanna be in a relationship with a broad now a days and NOT get cheated on you need to:
1) not ignore red flags and skeptical points when first meeting these hoes… if it raises your eyebrows even just a little bit, ghost that bytch or just fukk and keep it moving.
2) make sure you’re in good physical shape… don’t be a fat nikka or nikka with a soft belly and bird chest… she’ll be cheating on you with a nfl player or some fit guy from the gym she goes to. Or even worse, a personal trainer
3) make sure your money is right… you don’t want a bytch cheating on you cuz you’re always broke, can’t take her no where and always struggling with bills… that can drive even a faithful chick to cheat.
4) even if your married don’t treat your spouse like you “live” for them… after a while, this tends to turn SOME (not all) women off after a few years… sometimes women actually wanna be savagely dikked down and treated like a worthless whore believe it or not… but you having the swag of a virgin catholic priest can get boring to them after a while and cause them to look for “excitement” elsewhere.
5) don’t get married until you are between 32-36…. Let these chicks go through their hoe phase and make sure you’ve gotten your cheating/fukking out of your system too… if you scoop a chick up too young, after 10-20 years of marriage, she will feel like she missed out on a bunch or fun times in her life. And she’ll end up having a mid life crisis once she hits 40 and you’ll catch her sexting a dude 18 years younger than her… nasty work
Also if your broad knows you’re cheating or have cheated, this can cause her to look for revenge… and her revenge is gonna be her finding a nikka to treat her like a cum bucket… all just to spite you. And if she actually enjoys it, she may NEVER stop cheating on you.
7) avoid broads that still feel the need to go the clubs and bars on a consistent basis, avoid chicks that are ALWAYS traveling (you think they just going out of town cuz they like to be by the “water”
). These chicks get to be complete hoes out of town and come home with a clean slate.8) Avoid broads that are always showing a shyt ton of skin/booty/t*ts…. Sometimes it’s hot out and sometimes they just like to dress like that. But in many cases, these how’s are “advertising”
9) never wife a woman who is constantly surrounded by powerful men (ex: professional ball players, rappers, celebrities, executives/bosses from her work place). Women love power and are turned on by it. It’s in their nature… so if she’s constantly around these types of men. It can end back if you’re just an “average Joe”
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