Stats - ATL, 27, Hair Stylist. No Kids,
Attractiveness - Solid 9 face, 10 body, for me. Other guys might like more meat on the bones, but she's almost perfect.
Listening to what she wants in a guy and her deal breakers
I hear what the broad says, but if she's been dating and won't admit to her last intimate encounter - she's ...just a typical woman.
She has paper requirements, like the ones above, that tell you how she thinks.
But those requirements are telling about the type of dudes that's been up in her guts.
The requirements mean nothing.
If you had all that, she would not be interested. And what gets her stank fish percolating is stuff that she hates/is willing to tolerate.
She's stuck between what her mind says, what society says, and what her natural urges are.
Attractiveness - Solid 9 face, 10 body, for me. Other guys might like more meat on the bones, but she's almost perfect.
Listening to what she wants in a guy and her deal breakers
- I want a guy that's respectful
- the last guy that she was with was not.
- Pour into her, as she poured into him
- The last guy took as much as possible
- Kind and Compassionate
- The last guy was not.
- Understands me when I can't articulate myself*
- She wants a mind reader
- This comes up again in a minute when she can't get her words out and has to refer to notes - @3:23
- No bad habits - weed, alcohol, drugs, exudes health, Works out a lot
- Last guy was not this
- Gym is therapeutic
- She's got something else going on in her life. Why does she need therapy?
- Very romantic - Ties in with her not having a relationship in her 20's
- He has to be a provider, but I'm not focusing on tax brackets
- He has to be the SOLE provider
- She will step up if she has to, but her phrasing suggests that she should never have to)
- She's a hairdresser and make up artist - at the low end she's making 36k, at the high end 80k. Whatever man that is gonna be the sole provider - house, 2 cars, kids, probably day care - needs to make 2.5 her salary (replace her income and some, plus money for the kids) - so 200K, at least. Avg Salary in ATL is 70K - so about 3x the median salary
- Make me feel very safe
- This usually ties into a combination of height, muscles, and attitude towards the world and not ability to box or pull a trigger - on a realistic level - the most brolic dude in ATL can catch a bullet too.
- Can't control his temper
- She's telling on herself here
- Can't understand my perspective on things
- Low key, this flies in the face of sole provider. She's referring to having disagreements with her dude, and to her, she doesn't understand where she's coming from. The way that typically works - "if he'd just understand, he'd agree with me and do what I want."
- Any broad talmbout communication is key is usually looking for a lane for control
- Low key, this flies in the face of sole provider. She's referring to having disagreements with her dude, and to her, she doesn't understand where she's coming from. The way that typically works - "if he'd just understand, he'd agree with me and do what I want."
- "Not gonna show up for me" + "I can't let you do anything for me"
- "I'm usually very independent, I don't ask anyone for anything - but if I call, you need to come running"
- the man makes all the money
- has to listen to her advice
- let's her do what she wants, but if SHTF he better fix it.
- "I'm usually very independent, I don't ask anyone for anything - but if I call, you need to come running"
- Put me in a better position and amplify my life
- This is deeply selfish and self centered - and delivered without irony.
- Hobbies
- Chess - ?
- Scuba Diving - hmm
- Rice Rocket and she wants boyfriend to ride b!tch? FOH
- Height and Race and Age - she has pick me answers here
- The eyebrow raises at
- not wanting to date a guy in ATL.
- says something about how she feels about ATL
- says she's willing to put it "all" on the line for a low intensity relationship, like long distance (smh)
- Willing to pick up and leave ATL after a year of long distance dating
- not wanting to date a guy in ATL.
I hear what the broad says, but if she's been dating and won't admit to her last intimate encounter - she's ...just a typical woman.
She has paper requirements, like the ones above, that tell you how she thinks.
But those requirements are telling about the type of dudes that's been up in her guts.
The requirements mean nothing.
If you had all that, she would not be interested. And what gets her stank fish percolating is stuff that she hates/is willing to tolerate.
She's stuck between what her mind says, what society says, and what her natural urges are.
