Sometimes I feel like I'll never have sex again...

[AnotherRoute]

It really is not hard to pull a chick in New York. Especially after taking Jujitsu lessons Not Brazilian JuJistu though traditional jujitsu

 

[no.]

The responses in this thread Everything from hitting the gym to get animal instinct to brazilian jiujitsu to ugly mane songs

Honestly, OP, if you're too lazy to get out there on the dating market, don't. But if you're gonna regret the missed opportunity in a few years when you're old and still alone and still feeling rejected... and I think you will, because even now you're depressed, imagine if this dry spell goes on for a few years more. Just 'cause you think you've become desensitized to the pain, doesn't mean it doesn't still hurt -- resignation ain't happiness.

So you gotta try.

 

[Wild self]

The responses in this thread Everything from hitting the gym to get animal instinct to brazilian jiujitsu to ugly mane songs

Being a scumbag with the gift of gab >>> being the "ideal" man that you want

 

[no.]

Being a scumbag with the gift of gab >>> being the "ideal" man that you want

Are you addressing me with this ''you'' thing? Or just talking about women in general?

The thing is, I personally haven't been introduced to Mr. Ideal Man and I'm not sure he even exists outside of my imagination, so I kinda have to make do with who's available. And who's available sometimes turn out to be scumbags, in which case I just dump them and keep it moving

 

[Wild self]

Are you addressing to me with this ''you'' thing? Or just talking about women in general?

The thing is, I personally haven't been introduced to Mr. Ideal Man and I'm not sure he even exists outside of my imagination, so I kinda have to make do with who's available. And who's available sometimes turn out to be scumbags, in which case I just dump them and keep it moving

Just you and whatever taste you have in men.

If you deny that aspect of bum dudes with a good mouthpiece getting girls in every walk in life, then you smoking that good spliff.

 

[no.]

Just you and whatever taste you have in men.

If you deny that aspect of bum dudes with a good mouthpiece getting girls in every walk in life, then you smoking that good spliff.

Well, duh I can't exactly realize how great Mr. Ideal Man is if he doesn't talk to me. Even if the guy is a superhero who has rescued a dozen kids off a burning building, takes care of his elderly grandma and volunteers at a clinic for cancer patients in his free time, I can't just know how ridiculously nice he is if he doesn't tell me or show me or whatever.


And the players out there, they lie. They will say they've done all that and more, they'll say they're really feeling the chick they're seeing when they've got four side pieces, which is why they lead women on, why they get easy ass and why they end up breaking hearts later.

 

[iBrowse]

nothing against OP but move this loser ass thread to the bushes

this shyt is depressing as hell

 

[Wild self]

Well, duh I can't exactly realize how great Mr. Ideal Man is if he doesn't talk to me. Even if the guy is a superhero who has rescued a dozen kids off a burning building, takes care of his elderly grandma and volunteers at a clinic for cancer patients in his free time, I can't just know how ridiculously nice he is if he doesn't tell me.


And the players out there, they lie. They will say they've done all that and more, which is why they lead women on, why they get easy ass and why they end up breaking hearts later.

Players now live in a society where they have it mad easy, especially with the simps running around. Add on top of the women that grew up in households that didn't have positive male role models or in dysfunctional places, the players are the ideal men. Hypergamy is a beast of its own.

 

[Elle Driver]

Yo...after reading some of the responses in this thread, I have to SMH at some of your mentalities and it's kind of embarassing for a man my age to read. To think that once upon a time i had your mentality but going through these responses I have to just say...some of y'all are disrespectful as hell to women and I'm surprised they even give you the time of day. I think most of y'all are just looking for cheap sex and nothing else.
I'm looking for a fruitful relationship, I'm looking for a woman who enjoys me for me (and not my money and what it can do for her), I'm looking for someone I can share my life with, I'm looking for someone I can share my favorite movies with, I'm looking for a woman that likes cool music (cause I like cool music), I'm looking for a woman that can help me make me a better man and individual and is willing to judge me for my faults to improve upon them.

I grew up in a family of majority of women so maybe this is where my stance comes from. Y'all are really up in this thread where I'm trying to wax poetic and express my thoughts with supposedly insightful responses where you call women "b1tches" and "hoes". I'm almost 30 so that young boy mentality don't do a goddamn thing for me other than wonder where the hell you developed any sense of morality or decency towards the opposite sex to even have them gravitate towards you.

This is why I could care less about having a one night stand at the bar...this is why I could care less about going on okcupid (which I find weird)...this is why I'll never go on backpage just to find some woman and reduce her to "a nut" and that's it. My standards have changed, my outlook on life has changed...what benefit would it come to me to inherit your style of thinking and way of doing things when it's obviously that you deal with women and people that I don't deal with on a regular basis.

And to top it off...you automatically assume you know me judging from over 4,000 posts and some pictures. Getting your reaction gifs ready and trying to come up with some jokes that your cronies will dap and rep you up for.

Please don't take this the wrong way...but some of you embarass me.

Never settle.

 

[iBrowse]

she literally gave him the face throughout the video too. The fck???


EDIT: she didn't shake Arsenio's hand too. What a bytch I bet bytches like her are the reason why this thread was started in the first place.

lol she did date michael fassbender

 

[Blackout]

Well, duh I can't exactly realize how great Mr. Ideal Man is if he doesn't talk to me. Even if the guy is a superhero who has rescued a dozen kids off a burning building, takes care of his elderly grandma and volunteers at a clinic for cancer patients in his free time, I can't just know how ridiculously nice he is if he doesn't tell me or show me or whatever.


And the players out there, they lie. They will say they've done all that and more, they'll say they're really feeling the chick they're seeing when they've got four side pieces, which is why they lead women on, why they get easy ass and why they end up breaking hearts later.

Could I ask you a question.

What do you think about a male who is shy?

Like would you ever approach, talk to and show interest in a male who is shy?

 

[StickStickly]

this is depressing....

But have you traveled overseas where females literally embarrass themselves to get a black dude's attention. @Malta school this n1gga....

They like confident men as well breh. This goes back to my golddigger post.

Men forget women want happy, optimistic partners, especially if you're older like OP. Think about it guys. Do you want a girl who is negative and cynical? People want life partners that will make the journey exciting, rewarding, safe. I have a feeling OP is a bit pessimistic. Whether he thinks he's hiding it irl or not, let me telel you it SHINES through like Rudolph's big ass red nose on a foggy Xmas eve. You have to make yourself enjoyable- you don't have to Change completely.

 

[no.]

Could I ask you a question.

What do you think about a male who is shy?

Like would you ever approach, talk to and show interest in a male who is shy?

Approach, yeah, if he caught my eye. Talk to, of course, I talk to everyone.

Show interest in... This one is a little complicated, because sometimes I mistake shyness for disinterest or just plain not being able to stand me. But if he keeps the conversation going and manages me to charm me even while being shy, sure. The thing is, even if he is too shy to say much, he has to smile or something, just to show I'm not bothering him with my talking... and of course he still has to say/do something worthwhile, or I'm not going to be interested in the first place.

And I get that shy people can come across as boring even when they're really not, but since we're talking first impressions here... Yeah, I might accidentally pass up a good guy because he was too shy to talk/show interest back

tl;dr: Even if you're shy, still try to make it clear to girls you're interested or else they'll get verrry confused.

 

[Blackout]

Approach, yeah, if he caught my eye. Talk to, of course, I talk to everyone.

Show interest in... This one is a little complicated, because sometimes I mistake shyness for disinterest or just plain not being able to stand me. But if he keeps the conversation going and manages me to charm me even while being shy, sure. The thing is, even if he is too shy to say much, he has to smile or something, just to show I'm not bothering him with my talking... and of course he still has to say/do something worthwhile, or I'm not going to be interested in the first place.

And I get that shy people can come across as boring even when they're really not, but since we're talking first impressions here... Yeah, I might accidentally pass up a good guy because he was too shy to talk/show interest back

tl;dr: Even if you're shy, still try to make it clear to girls you're interested or else they'll get verrry confused.

I'm asking this because women don't want to end up with a male playa and you mentioned male playas and I noticed myself that I have never seen a male playa in my life who is shy.

That combined with a lot of women expecting the male to approach her and be anything but shy and such makes it so that shy males get ignored or friendzoned.

I think its quite interesting because it shows exactly how male playas got the advantage.

 

[Theraflu]

OP is Nigerian why not take up @Matt504 @Art Barr suggestion and find a Nigerian girl who just moved to the USA who ain't into Western materialism?

Why not? @*F*U*N*E*R*A*L*

Not tryna play devils advocate but maybe you're actually chasing the wrong girls