sometimes I hate when these females get to attached

Malcolmxxx_23

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because deep down, a lot of them want sex too. but they are fronting (sometimes to themselves) like they didn't want sex as much as the dude. they front like they got short changed but they got part of what they want. if they wanted a relationship first and foremost then they should have made that clear and let the dude choose if he wants the same thing. but see they know most dudes aren't going for that and they're scared to not find a dude PLUS they are as horny as us anyway.

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They want both
 

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Wait: "being nice" equates giving it up to someone you barely know? :leon:

Never said that. These dudes high five each other for playing with someone's feelings and treating them like shyt and people expect us to be nice to them. I'm basically saying don't feel bad for acting like a bytch with men because they don't feel bad about treating you like shyt.

Also, there were multiple threads where the dudes were shytting on women that wanted to get to know guys better before they had sex with them
(calling them hoes, dumb, saying they play them even more etc). Even @Turbulent (you know the guy in here asking why she had sex with someone she wasn't in a relationship with) said that a woman doesn't really know him until she has sex with him. So trying to know him better before sex is pointless.

and these are the same guys that judge women for avoiding men altogether/staying single. :dead:
 

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By telling a female he doesn't want just sex and acting like something will lead to a relationship basically. It can be spun a lot of different ways but that is the basis of the lie.
but she could say "well the relationship will lead to the sex, not the other way around". Or she could say "how about we just wait until we're in a relationship before we have sex". I'm trying to understand what in the girl's mind is the something that will lead to a relationship?
 

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Cs everything
They want both
they want both. we need only one. a smart chick won't give me just what i want. she will try to influence me to want the other part by making me see the benefit of it. in other words she will try to sell me the whole package or nothing and only sell it to me once she's convinced (with guarantees) that i genuinely want the whole package. and if i don't want the whole thing, she won't give me anything.

a dumb bytch knows i only want part of the package so she'll try to sell me the part i want, throw the relationship part as a bundle, then get mad when i throw the part of the package i don't want in the bushes.
 

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but she could say "well the relationship will lead to the sex, not the other way around". Or she could say "how about we just wait until we're in a relationship before we have sex". I'm trying to understand what in the girl's mind is the something that will lead to a relationship?

I agree but like I said some females have to learn the hard way to do things like that. They will believe a guy and not understand a person would just lie like that. Some also have the false impression they can use sex as a means to get into a relationship.
 

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Funny thing is I can call her few days from now and she will be down to smash or hangout..they love what they can't have

I aint even mad...I'm ignoring her..she is doing it to another guy who is begging for her time ..

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they want both. we need only one. a smart chick won't give me just what i want. she will try to influence me to want the other part by making me see the benefit of it. in other words she will try to sell me the whole package or nothing and only sell it to me once she's convinced (with guarantees) that i genuinely want the whole package. and if i don't want the whole thing, she won't give me anything.

a dumb bytch knows i only want part of the package so she'll try to sell me the part i want, throw the relationship part as a bundle, then get mad when i throw the part of the package i don't want in the bushes.
:ohhh: so true
 

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Never said that. These dudes high five each other for playing with someone's feelings and treating them like shyt and people expect us to be nice to them. I'm basically saying don't feel bad for acting like a bytch with men because they don't feel bad about treating you like shyt.

Also, there were multiple threads where the dudes were shytting on women that wanted to get to know guys better before they had sex with them
(calling them hoes, dumb, saying they play them even more etc). Even @Turbulent (you know the guy in here asking why she had sex with someone she wasn't in a relationship with) said that a woman doesn't really know him until she has sex with him. So trying to know him better before sex is pointless.

and these are the same guys that judge women for avoiding men altogether/staying single. :dead:
small but important nuance: i asked why she slept with the guy she wasn't in a relationship with if what she wanted is a relationship first and foremost (and still no one answered).

i stand by what i said. i don't think a chick knows how the dude truly feels until after they slept together. Heck even the guys who genuinely believes he's in love doesn't know how he truly feels until after he fukked. this is a personal belief. So as far as the girl, did she fukk because she loves him or because she's trying to get to know him?

what i'm saying is, once a chick chooses (as a responsible non-retarded adult) to have consensual sex with someone, she accepts the risk that he may not be interested in more than that despite whatever he said. either she learns to separate the sex from the relationship or she chooses to only have sex after she's married.
 

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Never said that. These dudes high five each other for playing with someone's feelings and treating them like shyt and people expect us to be nice to them.

Also, there were multiple threads where the dudes were shytting on women that wanted to get to know guys better before they had sex with them
(calling them hoes, dumb, saying they play them even more etc). Even @Turbulent (you know the guy in here asking why she had sex with someone she wasn't in a relationship with) said that a woman doesn't really know him until she has sex with him. So trying to know him better before sex is pointless.

and these are the same guys that judge women for avoiding men altogether/staying single. :dead:

I think it all boils down to how you view, value and use sex. Some women tend to act like it's a gift that they're giving rather than it being something that they want to. Y'all literally control every facet of it, so if a chick gives it up for any other reason than wanting it herself (like pleasing a dude or getting to know him :mjlol:), she lost . Whatever expectations she had for the "relationship" probably won't get met :yeshrug:

So yeah, some of this girls (yes, grown ass girls) are stupid and dumb when it comes to gaming. They'll give up sex to a dude and try to establish communication afterwards. Yeah, he got to know her alright, and chances are (with a few exceptions), he knows he can manipulate the situation because she's weak mentally pliable


Avoiding men is great only if you're honestly and truly content with being alone with Mr.rabbit and a value pack of Duracells. Women just have to be smarter because I swear y'all ignore OBVIOUS signs of "ain't shyt" :pachaha:
 
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