Sometimes I Wish I Had A Break From Being Hated

The Nigerian

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that's nice...no one gives a fukk tho

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You have a good heart Nigerian, you also have a strong personality that's difficult for some people to deal with, they want you to humble yourself and be less than the person you are just to please people, continue grinding and soon you'll be in a position where the thoughts of haters will be completely irrelevant.
 

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I guess on a psychological level, normal humans are attracted to anything that follows the laws of nature, like symmetry/beauty, etc.

As an inverse, people tend to hate things that don't seem natural to them. So maybe your personality seems forced and it turns people off.

You do come off like the kind of kid to show up to grade school in nothing but rocketship boxers and take a shyt in the middle of the school yard in front of everybody on some ":lolbron:" shyt, and then wonder why noone wants to sit next to you in class


I mean read what you just wrote. Not necessarily what you're saying but how you phrased it. You sound like the diva on campus who thinks "ugh all these other girls are hating on me:noah:" Whether you're aware or not, that's some attention whore shyt.

Don't get me wrong, unless you go out of your way to offend me, I don't give a fukk about character flaws, so this ain't how I permanently view you so much as how I believe you come off to people. That ain't necessarily who you are.

I come off like a know it all/ quasi-buzz killington at times, cause i can't turn off the part of my brain that asks questions. I also wade in and out of different sensibilities and that might make me come off as a poser/ fake. You can see it in how I write. That ain't who i am but it's how I see myself coming off to people that don't know me that well.:manny: At the end of the day you gotta know yourself. Then you make adjustments in how you present yourself, or dont.
 
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op, your problem in life is that you're a bottom bytch.

a sucker

a bytch ass nukka

a chatty patty

an overall fakkit

etc

but you've lsitened to too much rap music, and saw Goodfellas one too many times, and this wwarped your mind into wanting to become some type of boss, which you're not.

So 24/7 you're mind is in a battle trying to fight the fakkit u truly r imitating a boss.

resulting in you being lost, unsure, and generally unliked.

Fukk :ohhh:
 

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if this consistently comes up, maybe the problem is you
It is. In life, everyone else are variables while WE(ourselves) are the constant. So if everyone cant stand you, you cant blame them. Some people are just so delusional and have so much self serving bias that they lack complete accountability as far as how they interact with people, so he very well may legit wonder why hes viewed as a joke and disrespected by his peers. Delusions of grandeur lead his type to think theyre "hated", when in fact one would have to at least hold some power to be hated, seeing that it stems from fear. Those who are actually hated wouldnt even care, theyre too big to notice it. I think deep down he knows he aint shyt, and is a major fukking loser who got strongarmed by a frail cac out of his business venture and eats cac table scrap wings....so he copes by lying to himself.

Im important:mjcry: Im somebody, everyones just jealous of me:mjcry: Shoutout to mah haterzzzz~~``:mjcry:

This is also a very feminine way of thinking, especially that of an adolescent. In other words, he has the mind of a teenage girl which once again makes him a fakkit by proxy. Complete with the online equivalent of sticking his fingers in his ears going LALALA I cant hear you, Ignore list! Anytime hes challenged. Now see that shows he isnt even built for online confrontation so you he stays getting hoed IRL:mjlol: I wish I could neg him again.
 
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You have a good heart Nigerian, you also have a strong personality that's difficult for some people to deal with, they want you to humble yourself and be less than the person you are just to please people, continue grinding and soon you'll be in a position where the thoughts of haters will be completely irrelevant.

I agree with you on the humility part. The reason why @The Nigerian receives an exponential rate of hatred IRL and on here is simply due to how he presents himself. When human beings sense arrogance, they have a natural knee-jerk reaction to put someone in their place. Now.. you might ask why that is? But there's a fine line between self-confidence and arrogance. Often, the Nigerian, comes across as condescending. I, too, have that problem but I deflect arrogance by praising God, so people still see me as a snob but a religious snob who can humble herself. That's the key ingredient to receiving less hatred: humility. When you walk around like you're better than others, don't be surprised when you find sharks in the water!


I remember seeing threads The Nigerian made whereby he'd praise himself and then just leave the convo :skip: He'd talk about his business plan, get a ton of praise, and then wouldn't respond to any legitimate concerns :wow: When people sense you think you're better than them, that's when :troll: begins. It's not as if the Coli has millions of people and you couldn't respond to a few genuine questions. At the time, you probably thought it wasn't a big deal to ignore people or in some threads completely patronise them, but what happened afterwards? Those 'little' people joined forces to completely try and destroy your business. That thread was so epic.. I registered that day to the Coli, because it was a historic moment to watch. It's not that I enjoyed seeing a man fall, or that I was even rooting for your demise. I was just drawn to witnessing the spectacular case of seeing a man being humbled right before my eyes. We've all been humbled before sometime in our life... so don't feel you're alone! We just all got to watch yours.. and it was beautiful. I remember checking on updates at 2 am, wondering if you'd make a humble statement that would stop all of the lions in their tracks, but you did not budge, and soon after everyone left it alone. Life always goes on. I did sometimes think if what had occurred made you change your perspective in life.. judging from this thread, I think you're at that stage where you DO want to make a change. You know.. it's never too late. No one hates you intrinsically. We're not programmed to hate you -- no one has a 'I hate Nigerian' chromosome lurking somewhere. Therefore, you have to face the reality: YOU are the common denominator. There's something about your personality trait which irks millions of people. And that trait is arrogance.You can listen to what I've said.. or you can live wondering why it is people always want to see you fall :yeshrug:
 
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