As an Xbot, the paying for live was never a problem for me, ya it sucks to pay to use netflix, but what's 35 dollars??
The always online wasnt a big deal neither since my 360 is connected to an ethernet cable 24/7
However, the Kinect/always on combo is kind of creepy and the DRM alienates a lot of gamers like myself who dont pick up games the day they come out, I usually buy games used(such as Batman AA, Batman AC, red dead redemption, etc) from the local mom and pop game shop up to a year after theyve been out, for that I'm preordering PS4 and I'm throwing the Xbox one in the bushes
Baptize me PS4 brehthren!!!!