Sooo, the DMs were open while they were dating??

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It seems like she’s flexing that she got a ring more than she found a husband to spend her life with.
That’s the real problem.

I always peep game when women talk more about their potential wedding then actual how’d they want their marriage structured, in regard to how they’d deal with good and bad moments.
 

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I know a dude who gave a chic a whole engagement ring and I had her on her back in Puerto Rico..raw dogging....shyt is demonic out here

At first I was surprised but his girl going to Puerto Rico should’ve been a flag on the play. Lol She went by herself or with friends?
 

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As always, a Coli niqqa knowing it all while knowing nothing. Lol.

Are you routinely checkng your woman's phone?

Are you of the school of thought that man's financial standing and ability to project/demonstrate such should be of little to no importance, leaving raw physical attraction as the only foundation of your relationship?

If you're answering "No" to either of these questions, "what you allow" doesn't matter. Because you have no manner in which to access her entertaining outside options, or her true attraction levels pushing her to do so.
That is the strongest foundation for every every relationship. It’s the one thing that can’t be truly faked. I hate speaking an absolutes but I truly believe this. I also didn’t say other things shouldn’t or don’t have any importance but physical attraction is the biggest factor. Now looks fade and people get old and that’s when other facets of the relationship kick in but for most of people lives until they get old attraction is the biggest thing. So just to reiterate men know when a woman truly want them if you don’t understand this you’ll going to get raked through the coals one day.
 

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At first I was surprised but his girl going to Puerto Rico should’ve been a flag on the play. Lol She went by herself or with friends?

The two pics she posted on her IG are selfies...im sure the narrative was she went with her friends or "by herself"....9 out of 10 if the traveling "alone" and they got a fat ass...the trip was sponsored...and they getting they back blowed out
 

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Little lesson for the young kids here. If you ain't in pictures on her social media, you ain't that guy. If you ain't in her pictures AFTER the engagement... :mjlol: you really fukked up.
My girl just posted me on her timeline one day after about two months of dating, didn't ask or nothing wrote a long paragraph like they always do about how much she love me yada yada yada.

This cat proposed to this woman and she didn't even post him in the announcement photo. Boy what a simp he must be. :mjlol:
 

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My girl just posted me on her timeline one day after about two months of dating, didn't ask or nothing wrote a long paragraph like they always do about how much she love me yada yada yada.

This cat proposed to this woman and she didn't even post him in the announcement photo. Boy what a simp he must be. :mjlol:

and muthafukka here said he probably dont wanna be known that's why he not in the pictures....:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol: bullshyt b.
 

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Basically she was keeping her options open for a crazy offer that never came

Physically, She is a 6/10 at best, she had no chance with top flight famous athletes/entertainers. Pretty enough for average brehs but not bad enough for rich/clouted/famous nikkas.

Naw women are attention whores, hungry for VALIDATION and NOT stupid.

They know their main source of engagement on social media which is mainly from THIRSTY MEN will DRY UP the moment they see another man posted.
This exactly. If they post any pic of their man or publicly expose their relationship with him, they will lose many male followers. And many high value men(well The ones with morals anyway)won’t send her DMs. No more compliments, positive reinforcement, validation and attention from thirsty unknown men. It’s exactly like sex symbol popular male singers who deliberately hide their real life girlfriends/wives/relationships and pretend to be single just to keep females as fans. They will go to shows and remain emotionally attached to the artists. And they will still keep the hope that their music idols will marry them one day.

When it comes to ig hoes, keep in mind that most of their followers are men, it’s mostly men that like their pics and write positive comments about their pics. yes you see women complimenting each other on social media, but it’s two faced/fake on their part, it’s expected and boring because among women, there is a unwritten social law that forces them to be nice and polite with each other in public( don’t worry they will privately talk shyt about each other behind their back later :pachaha: ) and it’s usually done with reciprocity motives in mind. You scratch my back and I will scratch yours type deal. A Woman compliments another woman on IG, hoping that the next time she posts a pic, she will remember her nice words and will return the favor. Also women secretly compete with each other for everything and they love to compare themselves to other women.
 
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Not one picture of her husband :mjlol:

This is who he chose to marry. I hope he accept the consequences. The average black marriage in America (assuming he’s black) last for five years:manny:
I'm a keep it a buck. I prefer not be in a chicks pictures. I don't know how'd feel about marriage though. :patrice:

I still feel like I wouldnt want to be posted. :manny:
 

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Not one picture of her husband :mjlol:

This is who he chose to marry. I hope he accept the consequences. The average black marriage in America (assuming he’s black) last for five years:manny:

If your about that life, that's an easy comeup for you and your girl...

These nikkas are cashapping and gofunding lunch and vacation money
 

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Physically, She is a 6/10 at best, she had no chance with top flight famous athletes/entertainers. Pretty enough for average brehs but not bad enough for rich/clouted/famous nikkas.

Why are so many people speaking so definitively on other men's high standards for who they give dikk to (pause)? Dudes will fukk anyone, and given that she isn't ugly and has the body type a lot of dudes love? She clearly has options, including dudes with money because she's in a big city full of dudes with money. I personally know chicks I'd say are a 6-7/10 who have celebrities in their DMs, that's not some rare flex reserved to only dimes. If you don't believe me, look at the Perrion Winfrey story from this week and the chick he lost his job over lol.

This story/pic is why that "apply pressure" shyt is a red flag. Only a specific type of woman says that shyt, and you should avoid them. We watch enough sports to know every winner didn't win by a blowout. If you apply pressure and barely beat out the next guy, he's still going to be in her universe as the reserve backup. Hell beyond sports if we're honest, we do this too. Men definitely know who they want next, or even at the same time. Brehs hit up a baddie and 7/10 on the same night, strike out with the baddie and get the 7/10. If you end up in a relationship with the 7/10, that baddie is still going to be on your radar to some degree right? Doesn't mean you're liking her pics on IG but it could mean you're peeping her pics and reading her tweets while remaining faithful. I'm not saying this is right or wrong, I'm just saying it's reality. And it's why you shouldn't pursue relationships unless there's mutual love. If it's clearly one sided and feels like she's doing YOU a favor by finally saying yes after you "applied pressure" then you're just an option.
 
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