Sooo, the DMs were open while they were dating??

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That is the strongest foundation for every every relationship. It’s the one thing that can’t be truly faked. I hate speaking an absolutes but I truly believe this. I also didn’t say other things shouldn’t or don’t have any importance but physical attraction is the biggest factor. Now looks fade and people get old and that’s when other facets of the relationship kick in but for most of people lives until they get old attraction is the biggest thing. So just to reiterate men know when a woman truly want them if you don’t understand this you’ll going to get raked through the coals one day.
I never it wasn't, and don't disagree. I don't know why you think this is a teaching moment lol.

You didn't answer both of my questions. Unless you check her phone regularly and/or don't believe in what you can do for a woman being just as important, this scenario isn't about what a man allows.
 

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Physically, She is a 6/10 at best, she had no chance with top flight famous athletes/entertainers. Pretty enough for average brehs but not bad enough for rich/clouted/famous nikkas.


This exactly. If they post any pic of their man or publicly expose their relationship with him, they will lose many male followers. And many high value men(well The ones with morals anyway)won’t send her DMs. No more compliments, positive reinforcement, validation and attention from thirsty unknown men. It’s exactly like sex symbol popular male singers who deliberately hide their real life girlfriends/wives/relationships and pretend to be single just to keep females as fans. They will go to shows and remain emotionally attached to the artists. And they will still keep the hope that their music idols will marry them one day.

When it comes to ig hoes, keep in mind that most of their followers are men, it’s mostly men that like their pics and write positive comments about their pics. yes you see women complimenting each other on social media, but it’s two faced/fake on their part, it’s expected and boring because among women, there is a unwritten social law that forces them to be nice and polite with each other in public( don’t worry they will privately talk shyt about each other behind their back later :pachaha: ) and it’s usually done with reciprocity motives in mind. You scratch my back and I will scratch yours type deal. A Woman compliments another woman on IG, hoping that the next time she posts a pic, she will remember her nice words and will return the favor. Also women secretly compete with each other for everything and they love to compare themselves to other women.

EXACTLY breh.

This is brehs AGAIN acting like women are stupid or they just acting STUPID.

DM’s and engagement give women a DOPAMINE HIT and confirmation to them that they’re UNIVERSALLY seen as attractive and DESIRABLE. “Look at all these guys in my DM’s, liking my pics and messages they all want me”

THEY KNOW No man really wants to see a woman he finds attractive snuggling up or posting another man. And that they will stop engaging if they do.




If this woman started posting her boyfriend what reason is there then to keep watching what she posts? :mjtf:
 

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I'm a keep it a buck. I prefer not be in a chicks pictures. I don't know how'd feel about marriage though. :patrice:

I still feel like I wouldnt want to be posted. :manny:

I agree with you on the one hand....on the other I think it's very insidious whem they dont especially if it's "serious"...no pun intended
 

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I mean she got a nice body but her attitude is very selfish it seems...:francis: how you getting engaged by dont even post the dude like he's invisible...
Not always.


Some women won’t post their guy until officially married. Keep broads out ya business 🤷🏾‍♀️
 
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Naw women are attention whores, hungry for VALIDATION and NOT stupid.

They know their main source of engagement on social media which is mainly from THIRSTY MEN will DRY UP the moment they see another man posted.

That's true but that also means..... YOU AIN'T THE GUY... :mjlol: Even these dumbass bird brain celebs claim a dude every once in a while. Because he's that guy to her.
 

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EXACTLY breh.

This is brehs AGAIN acting like women are stupid or they just acting STUPID.

DM’s and engagement give women a DOPAMINE HIT and confirmation to them that they’re UNIVERSALLY seen as attractive and DESIRABLE. “Look at all these guys in my DM’s, liking my pics and messages they all want me”

THEY KNOW No man really wants to see a woman he finds attractive snuggling up or posting another man. And that they will stop engaging if they do.




If this woman started posting her boyfriend what reason is there then to keep watching what she posts? :mjtf:

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Why are so many people speaking so definitively on other men's high standards for who they give dikk to (pause)? Dudes will fukk anyone, and given that she isn't ugly and has the body type a lot of dudes love? She clearly has options, including dudes with money because she's in a big city full of dudes with money. I personally know chicks I'd say are a 6-7/10 who have celebrities in their DMs, that's not some rare flex reserved to only dimes. If you don't believe me, look at the Perrion Winfrey story from this week and the chick he lost his job over lol.

This story/pic is why that "apply pressure" shyt is a red flag. Only a specific type of woman says that shyt, and you should avoid them. We watch enough sports to know every winner didn't win by a blowout. If you apply pressure and barely beat out the next guy, he's still going to be in her universe as the reserve backup. Hell beyond sports if we're honest, we do this too. Men definitely know who they want next, or even at the same time. Brehs hit up a baddie and 7/10 on the same night, strike out with the baddie and get the 7/10. If you end up in a relationship with the 7/10, that baddie is still going to be on your radar to some degree right? Doesn't mean you're liking her pics on IG but it could mean you're peeping her pics and reading her tweets while remaining faithful. I'm not saying this is right or wrong, I'm just saying it's reality. And it's why you shouldn't pursue relationships unless there's mutual love. If it's clearly one sided and feels like she's doing YOU a favor by finally saying yes after you "applied pressure" then you're just an option.
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