"Sorry I don't really date black guys"

[doct3rdr3]

yea exactly. first white chick I actually TRIED to get at in forever and this happens. she didnt say explicitly I couldnt fukk with you but when I asked to buy her a drink..."I cant". hit her with the and she just says "sorry". I said ok and walked off salty. Ruined my entire vibe that night.

Perhaps she was just saying she "can't" accept your drink right then:

• Maybe she had to be somewhere early in the morning and only wanted to get buzzed.
  
  
  
• Maybe she wanted to keep an eye on one of her girlfriends who was getting carried away.
  
• Maybe she had been talking to another dude who just then went to the bathroom.
  
  
  
• Maybe she doesn't drink at all.
  

The truth could have been ascertained by pressing further. "Why, was it something I said?" But instead you jumped to conclusions, caught feelings, and possibly just walked out on some available PAWGness.

 

[Chris.B]

how do you deal with this stop thirsting after other races of women that dont want ya black ass for starters

I don't blame OP for trying.

Most black women have this attitude defensive mechanism it's impossible to even make eye contact or get em to smile

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Perhaps she was just saying she "can't" accept your drink right then:

• Maybe she had to be somewhere early in the morning and only wanted to get buzzed.
  
  
  
• Maybe she wanted to keep an eye on one of her girlfriends who was getting carried away.
  
• Maybe she had been talking to another dude who just then went to the bathroom.
  
  
  
• Maybe she doesn't drink at all.
  

The truth could have been ascertained by pressing further. "Why, was it something I said?" But instead you jumped to conclusions, caught feelings, and possibly just walked out on some available PAWGness.

The story is bullsht, and doesnt really reflect basic human-to-human interaction. If you offer to buy her a drink, and she says "no", she's usually going to follow that by offering an explanation for her response. If she doesnt you're going to ask her why she declined. LOL @ storming off in a huff immediately after she says no.

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

The story is bullsht, and doesnt really reflect basic human-to-human interaction. If you offer to buy her a drink, and she says "no", she's usually going to follow that by offering an explanation for her response. If she doesnt you're going to ask her why she declined. LOL @ storming off in a huff immediately after she says no.

I see it as pretty common, offer a girl a drink and she declines then its safe to assume she doesn't wanna talk any further so someone just and walking away isn't farfetched in the slightest

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I don't blame OP for trying.

Most black women have this attitude defensive mechanism it's impossible to even make eye contact or get em to smile

Just look at this post...You want a black woman so bad. If you'd actually spend some time trying to meet black women, rather than wasting your days trolling on here day in and day out, you might be able to accomplish your goal.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Perhaps she was just saying she "can't" accept your drink right then:

• Maybe she had to be somewhere early in the morning and only wanted to get buzzed.
  
  
  
• Maybe she wanted to keep an eye on one of her girlfriends who was getting carried away.
  
• Maybe she had been talking to another dude who just then went to the bathroom.
  
  
  
• Maybe she doesn't drink at all.
  

The truth could have been ascertained by pressing further. "Why, was it something I said?" But instead you jumped to conclusions, caught feelings, and possibly just walked out on some available PAWGness.

That would make him look even more pathetic lol.

 

[BillBanneker]

How do you respond to this? maybe she doesnt say it explicitly but still most of us have experience this fate in some way or another rather it be blatant or subtle body language. I had a white chick at the bar the other day tell me "she cant" after I tried to get at her. She didnt have a bf and im cool with her hispanic friend who told me she said I was attractive..but 'she cant' hmmm.

how do yall deal with this? how can you gauge if an interracial chick is down or not?

I know I'll prolly marry a black women, but experimenting is fun for now

This blatant thread.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I see it as pretty common, offer a girl a drink and she declines then its safe to assume she doesn't wanna talk any further so someone just and walking away isn't farfetched in the slightest

My bad...yeah, if you're trying to game at some random floozie and she says "naw", then you're right...but he supposedly knows her...and she supposedly "likes him", or think hes "attractive". If you have a relationship with someone, and they say no to a basic offer, you're gunna ask why, or she is going to offer an explanation. Unless their both complete social retards.

 

[Chris.B]

Just look at this post...You want a black woman so bad. If you'd actually spend some time trying to meet black women, rather than wasting your days trolling on here day in and day out, you might be able to accomplish your goal.

Not interested in black women now...I will be when I'm done with the pawgs. Right now I like my women lighter

My kids have to look like me...

 

[drifter]

all my NY and LA heads..is it true women are more receptive to colored folk in those parts?

You're white.

I've lived in the south my whole life and never heard a black person call themselves a "colored folk". Only white people say that and they only say it when they're talking about us specifically.

Nice slip up, CAC.

 

[Yakno1]

What's with you nikkaz and your theories? .

Maybe the chick just prefers men of her own race like 95% of females?

It's like you nikkaz watch a couple of pornos and then assume every white chick lusts for black men and if she doesn't, she's afraid to openly.

Get over it.

you just joined.....how your rep that low

alias or gov't plant

 

[Premeditated]

But I get what he's saying. On a basic primal level, women are hardwired to be attracted to men, and men are hardwired to be attracted to women. Humans evolved to look for certain things when choosing someone to reproduce with, and 'race' plays very little if any scientific part in that.

So when a person says 'I'm not attracted to people of (this race)"...that's more socially constructed. I'm not crazy about white women. But Scarlet Johanson is more attractive than Monique, period.

Not co-signing anything from the OP though. He should get over it. People have preferences.

 

[Rack4K]

don't quote shyt if you're not gonna say anything

 

[Yakno1]

How do you respond to this? maybe she doesnt say it explicitly but still most of us have experience this fate in some way or another rather it be blatant or subtle body language. I had a white chick at the bar the other day tell me "she cant" after I tried to get at her. She didnt have a bf and im cool with her hispanic friend who told me she said I was attractive..but 'she cant' hmmm.

how do yall deal with this? how can you gauge if an interracial chick is down or not?

I know I'll prolly marry a black women, but experimenting is fun for now

Move on Breh; plenty of fish in the sea. You will not win them all. Nothing wrong with having fun and experimenting with Hispanics, Asians, Whites, Indian girls etc but just b/c one declined does not mean that the next will. Do not waste time thinking on it, keep it pushing. In most cities nation wide, IR dating is so common especially with the younger generations. It's not a thing no more, go to any big city now nation wide and you will see this

Have fun, live life!