Spare the rod or whip dat ass?

[Music Fiend]

coli brehs and brehettes, with kids and without

I'm interested in hearing your thoughts on this subject...

Do you believe in spanking your child or future child for discipline purposes? If not why, and how will you discipline your child?

My personal belief is 50%/50%. I can see both sides. In my personal experience, I used to get my ass tore up by the belt growing up. To be honest, it kept me in line and out of trouble. The fear of my pops swinging and disappointment in their eyes kept me smart.

On the other hand, the times I was "grounded" instead of beat, it just made me sneakier. I figure how to navigate under punishment. So idk

Which side are you on?

 

[Marti]

Beating a child with whips and rods came from slavery. ..i dont wanna argue tho

 

[William F. Russell]

Children need to be disciplined. Period. There's a gulf of a difference between a spanking and child abuse, however.

 

[Silkk]

1 swift quick pop

 

[Mad Good Dro]

If you teach your children jiujitsu you will nip all that shyt in the bud

Discipline humbleness and self defense all in one art form.

If you aint taking/teaching your kids to some type of martial arts/defense you lawst as a parent.

 

[dc007]

Kids need discipline, but it doesn't have to be physical. Just come up with creative ways of punishment.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Whip ass when necessary.

 

[UltimateSource]

You can over do it and beat the fear out of a child until all he lives for is the day he can fukkin kill you.

But yes, certain circumstancs deserve the lash.

 

[Paradise]

I believe that you spank your child when appropriate.

All situations don't call for spanking... Some times a good stern talking to or punishment will do.

 

[LuckyLibra619]

Ima try my best to never have to hit my kids, I don't want to be that kind of father. But if I have a son and he gets outta line I may have to rough him up a bit

Spoiler

 

[TL15]

Butt whoopins until they have a logical enough brain to decipher right from wrong without a physical pain as the stimulus

while they're young though

 

[Blackout]

Beating your kids is a last resort. Id go with grounding first and if it doesnt work then beat them but not any child abuse shyt.

 

[Will Ross]

It really depends on the child

 

[Music Fiend]

Kids need discipline, but it doesn't have to be physical. Just come up with creative ways of punishment.

give examples.

Most arguements tend to be on one side you have belts and switches.... and on the other end you have removing something they enjoy or a freedom.

both of which posses an issue IMO, since the end goal isnt to just top the behaivor, but make the child realize their are consequences for their actions... consequences that are long lasting with no shortcuts (for example jail or failing out of school or being addicted to drugs or pregancy for examples)

 

[dc007]

Well I was probably boarderlined abused, and I'm sure my mom was beating me more cuz she was upset which I think is counter productive.

But taking away privileges as well as giving them tasks to do that they absolutely hate, like at home research assignments with reports or manual labor at you or your relatives house could be options as well.