Most the black men who graduated from college that I went to high school with are with or marrying white women. Only ones not are me, this African and another dude.
They all had one thing in common zero attention from black women in high school and college. White parents may not like u with a black guy but they want u with a stable guy. All races actively promote their young girls to snatch up a stable guy. White girls snatch these stable dudes up early. Don't get it twisted
Now once these black women look up and stop having fun or focusing on them at age 26-30 a good majority of educated black men are gone from the community ten years of non attention they are officially not "plugged in" to places where black women will even meet them. So the black men who are within our community and social circles are running rampant just hitting everything.
They're mad the stable guy they figured they could fall back on after they had their fun or focused on school isn't there. Theses guys been gone for years
Now the problem I see with black women who want to get married they feel just one day they can flip a switch and look for a husband. It don't work like that, if u want something in life u need to establish yourself with a toolset and mindset early in life. Black women have no problem doing that for school, getting a job, driving bw rights forward. All of which are good I just don't see that with marriage.
I will actively tell my daughter to search for a husband as whiles she's going through school. Marriage and establishing a family is just as important as getting a degree. I don't think most bw have this mentality