Spin: Are women more afraid of approaching than men are?

[Cynical Thoughts]

Ive learned that no excuse is saved in terms of women and their accountability.

Children are held to a greater accountability in this society.

But it's all mens fault honestly.

 

[Neuromancer]

hilarious...

men,most of the time, are the ones who worship women for their physical attributes....worship women for their beauty..worship women for being in shape....worship women for having an attractive voice...and so on and so on....

but then want to turn around and ask "why are women accustomed to men approaching...why not the other way around"

i mean...what in the world..................... lol

why do a lot of men act delusional to stuff like this?....

is it an ego thing?...

None of what you said has anything to do with the question I asked.

 

[:-)]

I approached guys in high school. I got called ugly so many times. But all I did was take my glasses off and get my braces removed...nothing changed clothing wise....still wore my Dragonball Z shirts, still rappin and selling mixtape singles , still drawing anime on the science lab boards and so forth. Once that happened then I got hit on in high school. Sh*t made no sense so I turned them all down. I looked the same with or without my glasses. Same hazel eyes, same clothes, the same chick in the school orchestra. Hell I noticed the black guys in school wanted the black girls that were fast, dressed like grown women and would f*ck anyone and had children. I remember getting made fun of for not having children or having sex in high school and that played a role in me not even wanting to go up to guys.
Fast forward I'm honestly tired of making that effort, but it's good to feel wanted you know? Now that my body has matured and I got the red lipstick thing going men straight up :newdaye:...........but don't say sh*t and lick lips and giggle and show their teeth lookin like Stevie J n sh*t......

But if Jason Mamoa came into an Aldi grocery store or while I'm working squats at Snap Fitness hell I'd be all :beyoncethirst:.........................:freakroman:....I would DEFINITELY APPROACH!!!

 

[Jazzy B.]

Women shouldn't be approaching in the first place , that's up to us the Lions.

@ waiting for a woman to approach.

 

[Shadow]

There's literally hundreds of documented cases of men killing women who turn them down.

At saying women take rejection worse or equal to men

Those dudes were already mentally unstable then.

 

[Neuromancer]

Women shouldn't be approaching in the first place , that's up to us the Lions.

@ waiting for a woman to approach.

You didn't read the op did you?

 

[Neuromancer]

Ive learned that no excuse is saved in terms of women and their accountability.

Children are held to a greater accountability in this society.

But it's all mens fault honestly.

So are women like children?

 

[MalikReloaded]

The bolded is all you have to say


I just hate that when men feel the same way we're ridiculed and shamed by women who know damn well they are scared to approach as well.

That's how it is breh. You know how it go.

I think the average chick would hang herself if she got rejected more than 5 times. Their self-esteem is not built for it.

 

[MalikReloaded]

It's interesting how women have an excuse for everything. That excuse about not wanting to look desperate is garbage. I've had women approach me and never did I think that they were pathetic and desperate. It's just starting a conversation and showing interest. Some men look down on it and some don't. Assuming all men think negatively of women that approach is a cop out.

It's true though. The two chicks that approached me first ended up both being hoes. All men require is that you give us signs you interested like a smile or a warm glance. That's enough to make most cats go in for the kill. If you walking around with the bytch face all day everyday nobody gonna talk to you except the most experienced and most savage cats, and those are usually the players. Go figure.

 

[Easy-E]

This is related to the lady @tizabelle's thread. I've always been told that women mostly get approached, by guys they don't like. Do ladies approach guys they do like though? If no then why not?

2016 got brehs wanting to be approached like....really? C'mon, breh.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

It's true though. The two chicks that approached me first ended up both being hoes. All men require is that you give us signs you interested like a smile or a warm glance. That's enough to make most cats go in for the kill. If you walking around with the bytch face all day everyday nobody gonna talk to you except the most experienced and most savage cats, and those are usually the players. Go figure.

That's all that I required. I don't expect women to approach and figured out how useless it is to expect it from them, but requiring some signs of interest isn't too much to ask.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

So are women like children?

Imo, women(generally speaking)are kids who can have sex.

Just thinking of what women get away with but we will reprimand kids for. I'm envious actually.

I seen adults go in on middle school girls dressing half way sexual. Then turn on the tv/radio and hear dudes say shyt like, its no way a female(groupie) should expect men to be lecherous cause of her appearance. Even though she's dressed in a lecherous way and that's all she's known for and has done it for years.

It ruins entertainment for me. Cause I know they know the double standard but they still play along.

 

[Neuromancer]

2016 got brehs wanting to be approached like....really? C'mon, breh.

You really didn't comprehend what I asked. Read it again.

 

[Easy-E]

You really didn't comprehend what I asked. Read it again.

Bet u ain't gon like her tryna take charge in the relationship...

 

[Neuromancer]

Bet u ain't gon like her tryna take charge in the relationship...

Re read what I wrote. I'm asking how women can complain about not being approached but not take ownership of the situation.