Your analysis is what happens when people (like you I’m assuming) actually spend too much time online and I don’t mean that as a diss.
You seem like a normal regular dude. Probably get pyssy at a regular rate, found the coli, enjoy it, etc.
But then you see the “other type” of black person... a little weird and somewhat anti-social. Since you don’t have many real interactions with those types of people, you don’t really get them.
I don’t subscribe to the MGTOW or other anti women/ woe is me mindset (I’m a regular educated 31 year old black man), but complaining about women isn’t a “white only” thing. Black men are just as insecure as other races. Some people that post here may have extreme anxiety, chronic acne, may have crazy weird voices, overweight/underweight, extremely short or tall and gangly, etc etc. and they use the coli to vent about their challenges.