SPIN: Brehettes, How Did Having A Boyfriend Impact Your Finances?

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Honestly, hardly any impact at all with my current boyfriend. It’s great.

Translation - "He's paying for everything and im saving mad bread"

 

[brandy]

lmaoo. There is a book called the 5 love languages. It says that everyone shows love differently and it can be within 5 different categories.

Gifts,
Quality Time
Touch
Service
Affirmation

I recommend the book because it helps you understand how your partner is showing you love and allows you to communicate how you like to be loved.

 

[MajesticLion]

lmaoo. There is a book called the 5 love languages. It says that everyone shows love differently and it can be within 5 different categories.

Gifts,
Quality Time
Touch
Service
Affirmation

I recommend the book because it helps you understand how your partner is showing you love and allows you to communicate how you like to be loved.

I have it, it's a cool book. It's just rare that I've come across other people who mention it in conversation...and this is the very first time I've seen someone mention that their "language" is gifts.

 

[fckyoupayme]

I'm fishing for a plat

But i'm glad you found someone that matches, i'm happy for you




































but what about the other men you dated before?

I support you in getting that plat. Men before either spent on me or I was a fool and spent on them. It took a lot of trial and error to find the right match

 

[Gold]

lmaoo. There is a book called the 5 love languages. It says that everyone shows love differently and it can be within 5 different categories.

Gifts,
Quality Time
Touch
Service
Affirmation

I recommend the book because it helps you understand how your partner is showing you love and allows you to communicate how you like to be loved.

My wife and i just did a Youtube video on this. I came to the conclusion after years of doing it wrong that... when you dont know the love language of your s/o, you tend to project your own love language onto them.

So you get frustrated that they arent appreciating what you are doing, but in reality you might be doing things that dont hold that much value to them.

You might as well be dating yourself

 

[MajesticLion]

I came to the conclusion after years of doing it wrong that... when you dont know the love language of your s/o, you tend to project your own love language onto them.

So you get frustrated that they arent appreciating what you are doing, but in reality you might be doing things that dont hold that much value to them.

You might as well be dating yourself

Today's sermon brought to you by Gold.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

My wife and i just did a Youtube video on this. I came to the conclusion after years of doing it wrong that... when you dont know the love language of your s/o, you tend to project your own love language onto them.

So you get frustrated that they arent appreciating what you are doing, but in reality you might be doing things that dont hold that much value to them.

You might as well be dating yourself

DM me the link to your channel

 

[CinnaSlim]

Depends, some men all I had to spend was gas money to go see them. Either way, I typically spend more because we go out more.

 

[Strapped]

Them lying.

 

[Strapped]

Them.

Nme names

 

[HarlemHottie]

If men are spending nonstop on women, then surely y'all have benefited financially right?

Yep. Very much so.

But i use his money to buy him stuff too. Tbf, it's useful stuff he would have never purchased for himself.