My relationship has cost more because we do more than when I was single. We usually split or if he pays once I pay the next time. We have also grown our life together which has caused more responsibilities and expenses. Growing up costs money
My relationship has cost more because we do more than when I was single. We usually split or if he pays once I pay the next time. We have also grown our life together which has caused more responsibilities and expenses. Growing up costs money
Would be interested to hear this as well.
But the answer is simple.
Unless they were the type of woman who already had financial acumen, it didn't impact their finances.
Because we (men) aren't spending on things that would impact a woman's finances in a positive way. We're spending to keep them entertained. That's money down the drain. Their finances will remain unchanged.
Now, a smart woman would recognize having a financial partner means more money to save/invest, but we all know 20-something people aren't mostly thinking about that, especially social-media addicted women who are trying to keep up with one another.
A lot of men today love to cook. I had one boyfriend feed me 1/3 of my meals for a whole year. But that was our agreement. He'd cook and I'd drive to see him. Win/win.
I believe so. We are pretty fifty fifty. For example we are out of town. He rented the car. I’m paying for gas and tolls. When we go to Starbucks and stuff like that I take care of it to even out the big expense of the car rental.
Thank you
that’s solid, you’re a good woman
was his decision to cook for you financial or did you prefer his cooking?Hell ya! I saved a helluva lot of bread.
Yep that’s what I believe. If I wasn’t with him my ass would be home watching a movie. Or if I went out I would have pre gamed at home and got in the club for free lolSo basically relationships make both parties spend more than either would alone
