spin:can men handle a woman more successful than them?

[opulence]

For me it will be tough....but I will like it.
I'm from a traditional home where my father made the most money and put everyone in check because of his financial clout.

I think a man LOSES some of his power in a relationship if he is less successful.

MONEY = POWER

I disagree...it's only money....if you marry the right woman she shouldn't make you feel as if you've lost power. ..a man should always be the man....if you always act as such you shouldn't have any issues. ..

 

[opulence]

yes

Why?

 

[BigE214]

I will lie and tell you I love you, move in yo shyt and knock you up if you make a substantial amount more than me

 

[Shaman]

I can't deal with a girl unless she's as successful as me, if not more so ... I've been with a couple of girls who were dependent on me, never able to make moves or decisions on their own - never doing that again. I'm looking for a partner, not a pet.

 

[Spoonz]

I can handle any kind of woman

 

[King Poetic]

 

[Strapped]

i will have no issues as long as she knows i'm the head of the crib

 

[opulence]

I won't lie if my wife made more than me it d be a problem, last thing you want is your wife lording that over you.

I had more than my ex...I never brought it up...but he did in disagreements. ...it became a pissing contest with him...it started turning me off...

 

[Strike-Wun]

No, my fiancée is more successful than me atm, and I don't have a problem with it at all

Its all about how much weight is being pulled, if I wasn't making anything, unable to pull my own + our weight, or just stuck in a dead end job, then I'd feel some kinda way

As long as we can meet in the middle, or if something happened to/with her situation and I'm able to all the weight, I'm fine

 

[Chris.B]

I disagree...it's only money....if you marry the right woman she shouldn't make you feel as if you've lost power. ..a man should always be the man....if you always act as such you shouldn't have any issues. ..

Fantasy....

In most relationships the one with the most money has the most power.

FACT

 

[Mr. Somebody]

The thread with the 3 questions to women brought up a few questions. ...and since I didn't have the opportunity to go through the entire thread to see the male answers. ..here we are

But I notice a great deal of men claim they want an independent woman. ..but when they actually find one...it seems from my experience men want to feel needed. ..and it starts to create issues for them if their woman is doing better than them...


So can you handle dating a woman doing better than you?

Women have to stop looking at making more money than her man as being something to be proud of. We are in this together. We have to pool our money together because of the changing economic times, friend. Women cannot beat their chest and say *i make the most, i am the GOAT, i stand alone. I need only me* because this makes no sense. You cannot feel like you are the boss over your man and set out to demoralize him because you make a few extra pennies yet still live check to check. This causes division. Regardless of if your man makes a few 10 grand less than you that money should be pooled together and that respect should be in tact because when demons come that money wont be there to save you. Hopefully a good man will, friend.

 

[Illeye buckmatic]

Hmmm...when I meet men that aren't doing as well financially as I'd like. ..I have that mindset of we can come together and do better for each other. ..but eventually their true feelings surface. ..

I'm going to take myself out of my current financial position and place myself right after I graduated college. If I had found a woman making more than me,I wouldn't have had any problems. It would prove to me that she loves me for who I am and not for my money. She obviously wouldn't be a gold digger. As long as she wouldn't throw my lack of income in my face during arguments and she valued my opinion during financial decisions that would affect both of us,I'd be cool with it

 

[Will Ross]

Women have to stop looking at making more money than her man as being something to be proud of. We are in this together. We have to pool our money together because of the changing economic times, friend. Women cannot beat their chest and say *i make the most, i am the GOAT, i stand alone. I need only me* because this makes no sense. You cannot feel like you are the boss over your man and set out to demoralize him because you make a few extra pennies yet still live check to check. This causes division. Regardless of if your man makes a few 10 grand less than you that money should be pooled together and that respect should be in tact because when demons come that money wont be there to save you. Hopefully a good man will, friend. :stidown:

You stay posting real ass shyt

 

[Will Ross]

I doubt a woman would be with a man that has less then her.
so this question is kinda silly seeing that most women don't date down.

 

[BruhMayne]

I disagree...it's only money....if you marry the right woman she shouldn't make you feel as if you've lost power. ..a man should always be the man....if you always act as such you shouldn't have any issues. ..

If we were legally married then it wouldnt matter. Playgirl thats OUR money now