Spin: Have Black Men even attempted to talk to Nerdy Black Women?

[SadimirPutin]

Here is the thing...nerdy is one of those things that everybody thinks they know what it means but in reality is a VERY vague concept....cause interests/hobbies are a broad thing but are also very personal

For instance....someone might say being big into Harry Potter is a nerdy thing....but with hundreds of millions of people being Potterheads(their term) is that really a nerdy niche thing? Plenty of "bad bytches" are deep into that.

How about astrology?(which I think is COMPLETE NONSENSE)..however again millions of people are into that?

How about science fiction? Is that nerdy? There are reams of absolutely amazing science fiction to read?

Nature Shows? Sewing/Knitting....

See what I am getting at.....my guess is that nerdy tag generates more from appearance than actual things that would be considered nerdy

 

[Mindfield333]

This is a Gen Z issue that you are blowing out of proportion. Most of those girl's want black men

They are. Or the using it as a cop out bc alot of them don’t wanna admit what they like

 

[Jazzy B.]

It's not , lot of those girls get clown and roasted as teenagers because most of them don't take care of themselves along with being invested into anime... It's similar to "nikka nerds" or that one meme we had on here when one black women reject them and they are hateful of them as a whole. when these nerdy girls get older they start taking better care off themselves and start looking more attractive and brehs start wanting to give them play but they are hateful as fukk because of the shyt they went through as teenagers.. not saying it's all of them but it's a good majority.

This is facts!

Messed with a woman who fit that exact description


And yes she DESPISED Black Men



I was the only exception to that rule once she got older.


She got teased by a couple of brehs as a teenager on her looks and brehs overall weren't really checking for her and it has stuck with her.

 

[Bigblackted4]

My bread and butter during college, they was always freaks

 

[Ohene]

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Nah. If she wasnt a devout Christian, no sex til marriage type...I def woulda locked her down and married her tbh. But at age 23 i wasnt going to wait 2+ years and be celibate …especislly cause i dont fukk with religion and her fam was religious

One way or the other the religion shyt woulda became an issue

 

[dr. pill biden]

i see true nerdy chicks get married to other black weirdos real quick and be fat/awkward and happy together for a long time. i think there’s something to that

its the “cool” chics and wannabes that get checked for more but smutted out and unable to find peace more

 

[Phitz]

Being attractive takes work...hair, makeup, clothes, gym, clubs
Being successful takes work...study, work, study, play, work, work, work
choices

Intelligent women pull off both

 

[3:30]

"Nerdy" = normal.
Do other men have to calibrate this hard for normal women?

sadly because of the hyper superficial society we live in yes.

Women not on that robot thot hype instantly come across as having more going for them mentally

That’s all it is

 

[Mowgli]

Nerdy black women get married.

Thots that put on nerdy glasses do not

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Intelligent women pull off both

hardly....
there are men discussing right now in one of today's threads talking about how being "fly" is a cheatcode
what does that require?
hair always cut or done.....best shoes sneakers.....fashion up to date....expensive car

for women it is even more intense.....
as in being a "hot girl"

all that takes A LOT of time/money/energy
an "intelligent" woman usually has better things to do with her time/money/energy than "looking good"
on average
depending on age/economics etc

point being...
the "hot" folks are not usually the most successful or intelligent
key word "usually"

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I actually had a nerdy type of 19 yr old I was dating. Quiet and Shy. Didn't post shyt on Social media.

Should've left with her to Texas

 

[Phitz]

hardly....
there are men discussing right now in one of today's threads talking about how being "fly" is a cheatcode
what does that require?
hair always cut or done.....best shoes sneakers.....fashion up to date....expensive car

for women it is even more intense.....
as in being a "hot girl"

all that takes A LOT of time/money/energy
an "intelligent" woman usually has better things to do with her time/money/energy than "looking good"
on average
depending on age/economics etc

point being...
the "hot" folks are not usually the most successful or intelligent
key word "usually"

I"m speaking from experience. There are attractive women with high IQ's around the world who also have a high sense of art and fashion.

Women who are scientists, grad students, professors teaching properties of elements who have a very nice shape and know how to analyze properties of hair and cells. These women are also pretty in the face and speak at least 2 to 3 languages.

I know someone who can paint/draw amazing art, dance, and analyze statistics and has documented research at a renown(sp?) university.

Alot of people have multiple intelligences, alot have 1, alot have 2 or 3. You're only speaking from a certain limited perspecitive


Go to certain countries and ALL the women of all beauty levels make sure their hair, nails, and skin are flawless, even the "nerdy" ones.

 

[Uncouth Savage]

I"m speaking from experience. There are attractive women with high IQ's around the world who also have a high sense of art and fashion.

Women who are scientists, grad students, professors teaching properties of elements who have a very nice shape and know how to analyze properties of hair and cells. These women are also pretty in the face and speak at least 2 to 3 languages.

I know someone who can paint/draw amazing art, dance, and analyze statistics and has documented research at a renown(sp?) university.

Alot of people have multiple intelligences, alot have 1, alot have 2 or 3. You're only speaking from a certain limited perspecitive

yes I will agree....limited perspective yes....

 

[prime]

As a former “hood niqqa” back in high school black nerds and suburban bytches was the easiest to hit they like the thrill of being around us I’m not sure breh with no swag would have a chance with them either a lot of them Like cacs and Asians too

 

[BobbyWojak]