Spin: How old is too old to be living at home?

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Would you date a 33 year old man who still lives at home, in his parents' basement? Be honest, brehette.

I know a nikka 37 who lives in his moms basement and has a full time decent paying job.She has a townhouse it's dope but he tells chicks he rents his mothers basement out :shaq2: but he really lives with his mother.
 

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I don't blame you, breh.

The average 1BR where I live in the NY suburbs is $1,400.
Now I live on my own because I just can't deal with roommates and I need the peace of mind of coming home to a quiet house.

But realistically I do think about taking on a roommate situation or moving back home.
I won't, but it's tempting sometimes.

i'd hate having a roomate

the funny thing my street is filled with people my age, evne poeple married who live with thier parents :ehh:, i notice in the black community its some sort of "cardinal sin" to live at home.
 

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Men aren't really given a pass for it, but women get a pass for it all the time. Most of these chicks would never take a nikka seriously who still lives at home past a certain age. Yet, men don't dismiss these chicks over 25 still living at home.
Because first of all women who choose to stay at home are usually super family oriented. Meaning they make good wives. My girl now cleans and cooks like shes my fukking slave. Why? Cuz she lives at home still and shes used to doing all that stuff. Its good for a women to have strong family values. Good for a man to have skrong pockets.

And men are the ones who wanna bring females through to fukk. Thats the main reason girls next dudes without their own place. You don't have your own place you basically have nowhere to fukk. No grown woman wants to sneak around like a 10th grader just to get dikked down.
 

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I know a nikka 37 who lives in his moms basement and has a full time decent paying job.She has a townhouse it's dope but he tells chicks he rents his mothers basement out :shaq2: but he really lives with his mother.
Lol, he is embarrassed about his living situation. He should own it, he is not a bum.
 

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OK. I can see where you're coming from.

It's not that way in the West. Most Western women with options wouldn't take a man who still lives at home past 25 seriously.
From what I heard it's under the presumption that it is a grown man without any responsibilities which from what I have seen growing up. It is not the case, in fact...yoy have more responsibilities because you are an adult and are expected to take more household responsibilities to take take care if the rest of the family.
 

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moved back in with my parents just this year after i graduated from college :snoop: I'm going nuts, they're cool and all but this is not the bizness. Looking for an accounting job, had a couple interviews, no go. I think I might just get a job at a bank or something in the meantime just so I can move out
 

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22 and I'm saving up to move out. I want to be stable before I go tho. I ain't trying to come back once I'm gone. When my mom gets upset she'll be like "YOU'RE A GROWN WOMAN. GET SOME RESPONSIBILITIES." but then when I mention leaving she's like "Is it so horrible living here? Why you wanna go? Do we treat to you so bad? Ain't nobody kicking you out. :sadcam:"

:mjlol:

In my (Dominican) culture, normally the woman doesn't move out until she gets married or has a baby.:yeshrug:

But I think 27 you should already be ready to go if you're well prepared to be on your own.
 

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moved back in with my parents just this year after i graduated from college :snoop: I'm going nuts, they're cool and all but this is not the bizness. Looking for an accounting job, had a couple interviews, no go. I think I might just get a job at a bank or something in the meantime just so I can move out
Ya it's not easy living at home.
 

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Moving back in with folks is painful sometimes.....very painful. I'm in grad school so I took a huge L in terms of full time employment. I have a good stable job now but as of this moment, I won't move out until I'm done with grad school. My parents are older so now I've assumed a lot financial responsibilities and just other general things. It is funny, I've grown more, moving back in and helping them out than living on my own. Plus they are very wise with life and money so I soak in that good game. They had menial jobs there whole lives but they have more in investments, savings, and real estate than lot of people that had higher paying jobs. Now they are getting to an age where I have to help them out more and more with bills, investments, and important life matters so I actually learn more about life this way than when I was on my own.
 

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moved back in with my parents just this year after i graduated from college :snoop: I'm going nuts, they're cool and all but this is not the bizness. Looking for an accounting job, had a couple interviews, no go. I think I might just get a job at a bank or something in the meantime just so I can move out

enjoy it breh
parents wont be around for ever


i love living at home when my parents are here
 

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Lol, he is embarrassed about his living situation. He should own it, he is not a bum.

He's comfortable there his moms is a nurse she works double shifts and sleeps all day it's like he's home alone.Me personally I couldn't do it he makes more dough than me and I live on my own

:pachaha: Chicks be roastin dude about it when he pisses them off
 

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22 and I'm saving up to move out. I want to be stable before I go tho. I ain't trying to come back once I'm gone. When my mom gets upset she'll be like "YOU'RE A GROWN WOMAN. GET SOME RESPONSIBILITIES." but then when I mention leaving she's like "Is it so horrible living here? Why you wanna go? Do we treat to you so bad? Ain't nobody kicking you out. :sadcam:"

:mjlol:

In my (Dominican) culture, normally the woman doesn't move out until she gets married or has a baby.:yeshrug:

But I think 27 you should already be ready to go if you're well prepared to be on your own.
so much easier for women living at home (just my opinion) try getting laid as a dude when you live at your parents crib, straight :camby: status
Ya it's not easy living at home.
I just need my own damn space I can call my own, also need a place I can actually invite women over to. :mjcry:
 

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My 2 cents, move out because it helps you grow but just make moves that will benefit your future, not the opinions of others. If your game plan in life or your life goals might be easier if you move back with your folks, then so be it. Honestly people on both sides of the debate have very legit arguments. Moving out, I grew up and became more of my own personality. Moving back in, I got to soak in good game and I learned to accommodate my life with others. I also learned to reason with my family more than fight with them and I've learned to take control at home.

It is still an on-going process thou....

Oh yeah, it is much harder to get laid, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. If you feeling a chick, and she's feeling you, just let her know your story and have her decide. Most chicks that want to smash, will smash you regardless. They just want to know the person they smash is a functional adult they might hang with later. You might have to rendezvous at a hotel or her place thou. I know I don't feel comfortable having sex if they live with parents, even if they are paying the bills and assume all the responsibilities. UNLESS it is serious relationship.
 
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enjoy it breh
parents wont be around for ever


i love living at home when my parents are here
I love my parents and am a huge mommas boy, I think I'll appreciate them more when I'm not around them all the time. It wouldn't be as bad but they also work from home and they hardly ever go out and do things, so they're just ALWAYS here. They're super nice though and I'm very blessed to have such supportive parents. As a man though, I need to get the fukk out of here.
 

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moved out after I graduated HS @ 18...after I graduated college I wanted to go back home because I was homesick and depressed without my mom and dad :no:
 
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