Spin: if you can't get a black dime, you won't get a white dime

[Swagnificent]

Good points.

Dark skinned brehs, Nigerian brehs etc., will feast on blondes and redheads...the Anglo, Scandinavian, German white white broads.

Off-white and brown women like lighter skinned brehs. I could pull redheads and blondes easy but Jewish, Italian, Latina type broads...not really. The vibes just don't match up. They want black not BLACK.

The reverse is true for me. Anglo white girls don't go for me as a light skin black man as much as more ethnic white women. Which works for me cause I prefer brunettes over blondes.

Also I gotta beat back the Latina and Arab looking broads. They really like my look. Almost every time I go out I see their type staring at me. While I'm almost always a ghost to Asian women.

 

[Swagnificent]

Eh, in my experience darker skinned dudes fare better with white chicks than light skinned/brown skinned guys.

If a white girl is gonna go black then she goes all the way black. Latinas on the other hand prefer light/brown skin brehs. While Asian women want nothing to do with any of us.

 

[kevm3]

You gotta get in where you fit in and as much as people don't want to admit, in general, different sectors of women have different preferences. It's been mentioned that different types of women go for different guys. Swagnificant gave a solid run down already.

Light skinned black women are generally more attracted to dark skin black men. Light skin black men do extremely well with dark skinned black women. Asian women generally go for white men, even above their own race. Kpop, which is heavily based on black music, now has certain Asians like Koreans garnering favor with some black women. 'Square-type' black dudes might do extremely well with white women or Indian women or 'white sounding' black women but do terribly with hood black chicks.

If you aren't a woman's type, she will shut you down almost immediately or make interacting with her almost impossible. In that instance, it's best to keep it pushing than try to 'win her over'. That nuclear physicist was unfortunately matched by a girl that wanted a convict or thug.

 

[Sindicated]

Good points.

Dark skinned brehs, Nigerian brehs etc., will feast on blondes and redheads...the Anglo, Scandinavian, German white white broads.

Off-white and brown women like lighter skinned brehs. I could pull redheads and blondes easy but Jewish, Italian, Latina type broads...not really. The vibes just don't match up. They want black not BLACK.

I don’t agree with this nikkas tend to forget Brehs aren’t just light skin and dark skin imo a dude in the middle is what all females prefer.

Even when I was a chubby nikka Latinas and White girls fukked with me heavy, this was before I started getting play like that from Black Women.

So I dont agree with this thread at all there’s definitely brehs Black dimes wouldn’t fukk with and consider lame or weird that white dimes would consider perfect, AND vice versa if we’re being honest a lot of those hood nikkas that be bagging dimes would only pull the trashiest of white women.

 

[Manolo]

I agree with most of the takes in here but it has me wondering why I get so much attention from Asian women as a dark skinned guy. From what you guys are saying they don’t usually like us. But I get attention from light and dark Asians as much as I do from Latinas, black and white.

 

[Swagnificent]

I agree with most of the takes in here but it has me wondering why I get so much attention from Asian women as a dark skinned guy. From what you guys are saying they don’t usually like us. But I get attention from light and dark Asians as much as I do from Latinas, black and white.

Are you sure they are Asian?

I know one time I was at the gym and this Asian looking girl was eyeing me down something serious. I go over to talk to her cause she was cute and turns out she was Latina. Some hispanic women look 100% Asian. Shorty had me fooled cause I thought an Asian girl was finally into me.

Also the Asian country of origin might matter. I mostly only interact with Chinese, Japanese, and Korean type Asians. It's possible Asians from places like Thailand, Laos, Indonesia, and Malaysia might have different preferences.

 

[#1 pick]

If American Black women were as analytical as you claim, the ratio of single mother households wouldn't be what they are.

Situation. A lot of them in difficult situations. It's not easy to be a good decision maker is bad situations. They are doing better than the poor whites while having a lot worse situation to face.

 

[#1 pick]

-When you say Indian women are you talking red dot or feather? Dealing with Native women most my life, they definitely aren't at the bottom of this list, lol.

The only natives I know are family members and my BM Black native side from Mississippi. I am talking red dot

 

[Manolo]

Are you sure they are Asian?

I know one time I was at the gym and this Asian looking girl was eyeing me down something serious. I go over to talk to her cause she was cute and turns out she was Latina. Some hispanic women look 100% Asian. Shorty had me fooled cause I thought an Asian girl was finally into me.

Also the Asian country of origin might matter. I mostly only interact with Chinese, Japanese, and Korean type Asians. It's possible Asians from places like Thailand, Laos, Indonesia, and Malaysia might have different preferences.

Yeah, I’ve been with Cambodian, Laotian and Chinese girls. I’m not whitewashed, am dark skinned with waves and tattoos but am educated and “cultured” which I noticed mattered more to them than other races.

I can tell I’m the first breh the Chinese one has dated. The Cambodian one had only been with one breh before me, who she told me she felt she could “do better than” and the Laotian had never been with a breh either. All of the guys I know they’ve been with are either Asian, Arab, white or light skin/hispanic brehs.

I can tell they’re classist and lowkey prejudice but being “educated” with “class” and good looks gets them interested in me. Whereas black and latinas seem more interested in me based solely on looks/attraction. I’d even say Asian women are much more hypergamous than other races. The Chinese one mentioned hypergamy to me when we first met and that she was learning about it

 

[AllHolosEve]

Nah they are very relevant because they have the same excuses. I don’t care who folks date but just keep it real. I don’t get the blame game

-It's totally irrelevant. Thread isn't about excuses, blame or who Black women date.
-The topic is: Can a Black man who gets rejected by a Black dime get a dime of a different race. I provided: A clear scenario where a Black man got rejected by a Black dime & got a dime from a different race. Point blank.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

I love the kat denning\demi lovato looking goth chicks they fukk with me heavy because my aesthetic and are almost always thick asf and low key fukk with brehs heavy in general, their crazy asf though and sneaky I’m talking poke holes in condoms type sneaky.

I think they rock with us because they feel we’re similar. The white race don’t exalt them they exalt them blonde Becky’s as the prize. Where as we know collectively black men are at the bottom of the standings when it comes to status and power.

 

[KillerB88]

Situation. A lot of them in difficult situations. It's not easy to be a good decision maker is bad situations. They are doing better than the poor whites while having a lot worse situation to face.

Stop it. No they aren't. Its about the percentages. nikkas likento play loose with raw numbers in these discussions. Black wealth is literally in a rapid decline while everybotuer group is on the uptick. Don't ever lie and suggest were doing "better" than these other groups at anything. The data is right there. We have to stop lying to ourselves and one another. We've been doing that and things are worse than ever. Folks need to wake up.

 

[Ozymandeas]

If American Black women were as analytical as you claim, the ratio of single mother households wouldn't be what they are.

They know what it is. They just feel bad saying it, so they’re being disingenuous and trying to gaslight.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

It's the same thing I say to dudes that have the fantasy of leaving the country and pulling 'dimes' in a foreign country, if your game can't pull dimes in your hometown how the fukk will you pull dimes in Brazil attraction is a universal thing

Culture and status for this one. You are the rich man when you come there, just being an American. When you routinely spend $50 for a night out and that’s their monthly grocery money, yea you a fukking baller even if you never spend it on them

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Most people grow up in environments where they are surrounded by their own race. The popular, athletic, attractive brehs get first dibs on EVERY sista in middle school and high school.

It's a feedback loop. They have success with sistas and get positive reinforcement for their looks, style etc, so they double down and have MORE success.

The nerdy/awkward breh likes sistas but just doesn't have any success. He's a late bloomer and it takes him awhile to find his lane. Then....he figures shyt out. Only now instead of being at a 75% Black high school, he's at PWI school in college that's 75% white. Becky's are swarming everywhere. White chicks that have never been with a breh, like this nerdy breh. He came from a Black 'hood so he's got enough swag to attract Becky but not so much that she's intimidated.

It's not a race thing...it's timing tbh. Swirl Breh finds his level when he's surrounded by white women and they give him positive feedback first. Same way Pro Black Breh usually gets that positive feedback first from Black women and he stays there.

It’s also location. It’s not like we talking bout kids from Brooklyn who date the 3 white girls at school.

We’re talking about the black guy who is one of 15 black boys at a school with 1000 whites. Maybe there’s 10 black girls there and they ain’t feeling his too white acting ass. That’s all it’ll take.

There were probably Black chicks in that same hood that watched anime too tho. They weren’t the loud trying to clown chicks tho and they probably weren’t seen. But Black women who only date white have those same excuses. “I’m not thick” “I’m into anime” “I listen to alt-rock”

What’s the likelihood that those two nerds find each other, are attracted to each other and it all works out forever?