NYSTATEOFMIND
Superstar
If you are a male, swimming in fresh poon ( if you live in a major city- NY, Chi, ATL etc) get ya own place over a car....
Spin: I'm 20 going on 21 where should I be in my life currently
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If you are a male, swimming in fresh poon ( if you live in a major city- NY, Chi, ATL etc) get ya own place over a car....
Dreamzeedream
Banned
Dad ain't there and all the dudes in my family that I'm suppose to look up to are street nikkas thats in an out of jail , so sometime a young breh lose focus because I don't have that example to follow or look up to. I got my mother but a man gotta show a man how to be a man, ya know?
Some of the best advice I've seen on this site.
Except- even if they share your DNA.... be selective with trust.
Chuuuuch
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Please don't be that type of person that uses not having a father around as an excuse to fukk up. You know right from wrong way before 20. That's such a lame ass excuse that gets used over and over again.
not sure what everyone else has said but like dude said save your $.
My personal advice...dont look at other people's achievements or progress and feel like you are behind. Move at your own comfortable pace. There is absolutely no such thing as "where you should be". Set your goals, research how to achieve them and make moves towards them. Do not rush it.
My personal advice...dont look at other people's achievements or progress and feel like you are behind. Move at your own comfortable pace. There is absolutely no such thing as "where you should be". Set your goals, research how to achieve them and make moves towards them. Do not rush it.
flawed way of thinking. You should know better
nope. Maybe i didnt word it the best way by using positive words like progress and achievements but what i mean is you cant look at what other people have as your motivation. Thats when you start doing dumb shyt like buying cars you cant afford or clothing you dont need just to impress bytches for the wrong reason. Gotta go at your own pace cause you dont know whats really going on with those ppl behind the scenes or what they did to get their wealth. This is coming from somebody who grew up with friends that later became criminals.
mortuus est
Veteran
money in your pocket so u can do what u want, dont go broke breh, im going through that so u wont have to through it 
You can do your own shyt and still buy shyt you can't afford.
Every successful person surrounds themselves with people they want to be like. That's just that.
The Nigerian
The Realest Member of TheColi
This is your time to go hard. But don't go too hard. Stay out of jail if possible.
If you do ever find yourself in cuffs just STFU!
Pay all legal fees upfront. Don't go for that payment plan BS.
You'll never be in your early 20s again. Enjoy yourself. Learn, network, and explore. If you can network with papered up kids from overseas do that.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
This dude can't even get his business of the ground. He is in no position to be giving advice
