SPIN: It is amazing to me how ILLOGICAL men are when it pertains to the opposite sex

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I made a thread yesterday, or the day before or whenever the fukk I made it about a situation I had with a broad where I wasn't budging in my stance to pay for a first date, and she wasn't budging in her stance to go on a free99 first date.:francis:
You can check it out here ..... Broke N*gga Sh*t vs HOH , We gotta discuss the difference

In that thread you'll see all types of sucker nikkas saying I should just pay for the date, or that I'm the one that asked her out, or wateva other lame shyt they were saying:snoop:

And you had a few, namely @Mr.bocario @#SOG_soldier @chowism and maybe 1 or 2 others who understood my viewpoint from a logical standpoint. Which is the premise of this thread: It is amazing to me how LOGICAL women are when it pertains to men,and ILLOGICAL men are when it pertains to women.

Even in that lil situation I made a thread on, from that chick's perspective i 100% understand her logic. 'nikka, you asking ME out, I could possibly be wasting my time. Time that could be getting spent by a dude that'll actually break the bank for me, so you gone have to put out :usure:' Mind you, she has a JOB and could easily just pay for her own meal, or movie ticket or wateva. But why do that when you got a long list of bum dudes that'll pay for you? :mjlol:

Even bigger than that situation, look how women choose their mates vs how we choose ours. That shyt aint about love to them (you wouldn't believe how many dudes were in that thread throwing that word around :mjlol:), its about can this nikka provide me a comfortable lifestyle, and THEN love.That's LOGIC. Even @GoldCoastSaint unknowingly proved that point talmbout her hubby spent 3 BILLS on her for they first date :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:, but its about love? Yeah right.

You got these broads out here making as much as, and in some situations MORE than their sexual counterparts but you still got dudes out here pushing for traditional rules when it comes to these chicks.
You got dudes still holding doors for em :dead:
Dudes scared to ask em to split the bill on a date :dead:
Dudes scared to ask for prenups :dead:
Dudes tricking on em :dead:
Dudes taking care of other nikkas seeds :dead:

Y'all nikkas lost out her man, and :salute::salute::salute:ladies for having ya cake and eating it too. Keep running these nikkas pockets in the guise of traditionalism .







EDIT: Maybe I should get into pimping :lupe:
 

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its about can this nikka provide me a comfortable lifestyle, and THEN love.


Ummm duh! Who's trying to be uncomfortably married lol? Yall kill me with this nonsense. Both people need to be stable on several levels- emotionally, spiritually, and yes, financially.

Folks please get your life in order before dating. Then when you do find someone youll be able to spend the suggested 20 on the girl you claim you like but wont take out because 10 of that 20 would go towards her.

Folks please understand that if 10 is too much, for whatever reason, for you to spend on someone then its best not to ask them out. The only thing worse than #wastehistime is #wasteyourowntime
 

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I wrapped your whole BS of a post up in one line :smugfavre:
 

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Ummm duh! Who's trying to be uncomfortably married lol? Yall kill me with this nonsense. Both people need to be stable on several levels- emotionally, spiritually, and yes, financially.

Folks please get your life in order before dating. Then when you do find someone youll be able to spend the suggested 20 on the girl you claim you like but wont take out because 10 of that 20 would go towards her.

Folks please understand that if 10 is too much, for whatever reason, for you to spend on someone then its best not to ask them out. The only thing worse than #wastehistime is #wasteyourowntime
:gucci:i was actually on your side if you'd read the post and get out ya feelings. It's dudes that really think relationships are about love, when their partner thinks otherwise.
 

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Ummm duh! Who's trying to be uncomfortably married lol? Yall kill me with this nonsense. Both people need to be stable on several levels- emotionally, spiritually, and yes, financially.

Folks please get your life in order before dating. Then when you do find someone youll be able to spend the suggested 20 on the girl you claim you like but wont take out because 10 of that 20 would go towards her.

Folks please understand that if 10 is too much, for whatever reason, for you to spend on someone then its best not to ask them out. The only thing worse than #wastehistime is #wasteyourowntime

I think the girl wanted 20 spent on her, not in total. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Regardless, you're right about having your sh*t straight before entertaining long term dating prospects.

However, OP has the right idea in general about not wasting his money on women. Just have to tone it down a little bit and make some concessions.

It's an easier mental adjustment to go from strict to somewhat lax, versus being too lax and trying to become strict. You can reason with a breh that's too #HOH. When a dude is too much of a simp, it takes YEARS for them to change.
 

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:gucci:i was actually on your side if you'd read the post and get out ya feelings. It's dudes that really think relationships are about love, when their partner thinks otherwise.


The hell? How am I in my feelings? Im giving good advice. And you definitely inplied Im only married for finances like I cant finance my own fine dining habits. Im just saying youre partially correct. Finances are a MAJOR part of marriage and should be treated as such. No shame in that.
 

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I think the girl wanted 20 spent on her, not in total. Correct me if I'm wrong.

He actually never specified. But said she said it can just be $20. Im assuming she meant the entire date. I think thats very reasonable and proves shes not just looking for a man to spend. $20 is nothing

Regardless, you're right about having your sh*t straight before entertaining long term dating prospects.

However, OP has the right idea in general about not wasting his money on women. Just have to tone it down a little bit and make some concessions.

Its not wasting money (or time which would be worst imo) if you court a woman you like. The problem is men want to get to know these women by hanging out as opposed to having a few meaningful conversations first. This generation is different but thats how things always used to be done. Yall skipping steps and its not working.

It's an easier mental adjustment to go from strict to somewhat lax, versus being too lax and trying to become strict. You can reason with a breh that's too #HOH. When a dude is too much of a simp, it takes YEARS for them to change.

Either way, both the simp and the #HOH lame are complaining so, like with anything, common sense should remind them both the importance of balance.
 

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I made a thread yesterday, or the day before or whenever the fukk I made it about a situation I had with a broad where I wasn't budging in my stance to pay for a first date, and she wasn't budging in her stance to go on a free99 first date.:francis:
You can check it out here ..... Broke N*gga Sh*t vs HOH , We gotta discuss the difference

In that thread you'll see all types of sucker nikkas saying I should just pay for the date, or that I'm the one that asked her out, or wateva other lame shyt they were saying:snoop:

And you had a few, namely @Mr.bocario @#SOG_soldier @chowism and maybe 1 or 2 others who understood my viewpoint from a logical standpoint. Which is the premise of this thread: It is amazing to me how LOGICAL women are when it pertains to men,and ILLOGICAL men are when it pertains to women.

Even in that lil situation I made a thread on, from that chick's perspective i 100% understand her logic. 'nikka, you asking ME out, I could possibly be wasting my time. Time that could be getting spent by a dude that'll actually break the bank for me, so you gone have to put out :usure:' Mind you, she has a JOB and could easily just pay for her own meal, or movie ticket or wateva. But why do that when you got a long list of bum dudes that'll pay for you? :mjlol:

Even bigger than that situation, look how women choose their mates vs how we choose ours. That shyt aint about love to them (you wouldn't believe how many dudes were in that thread throwing that word around :mjlol:), its about can this nikka provide me a comfortable lifestyle, and THEN love.That's LOGIC. Even @GoldCoastSaint unknowingly proved that point talmbout her hubby spent 3 BILLS on her for they first date :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:, but its about love? Yeah right.

You got these broads out here making as much as, and in some situations MORE than their sexual counterparts but you still got dudes out here pushing for traditional rules when it comes to these chicks.
You got dudes still holding doors for em :dead:
Dudes scared to ask em to split the bill on a date :dead:
Dudes scared to ask for prenups :dead:
Dudes tricking on em :dead:
Dudes taking care of other nikkas seeds :dead:

Y'all nikkas lost out her man, and :salute::salute::salute:ladies for having ya cake and eating it too. Keep running these nikkas pockets in the guise of traditionalism .







EDIT: Maybe I should get into pimping :lupe:
This is all facts. I implore men to suppress their feelings in life. Especially when it comes to picking a mate, u can't afford to look for love. Just find someone who cute and not a headache. All that love shyt is Hollywood bs
 
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