spin: men of the coli, do you have game

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I have no idea what you're talking about :skip:

I should post one them bytches too :lolbron:

:merchant: Whatever you do......don't post the first one. That one was a little too weird.

:shaq: in the cut like...well, YOU know
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Honestly I can't spit game to complete strangers. But if I know a girl has a slight interest in me I do a good job at not fukking it up and scaring her off.

I eat good off of table scraps too :manny:
 

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The only game i spit at a female is

Reality and she gets that by me saying this

Hello. How are you doing?

and the rest falls in place cuz by me saying that is enough of a ice breaker where i can just do me and have a good convo

When the reality is being myself and keeping it 100% with a female always works :win:

if she feeling me she will get at me

if she aint then her lost not mines is always how i look at it

A female telling me NO doesn't bother me the least bit

It just tells me she just missing out on a good thing like a good man like myself :myman:
 

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goons in the cut tryna talk you out yo necklace
Since Im so charming, come up off that numbah :boss:
Im comin for your kinfolk too... on BD :smugfavre:
Full creep :shaq:



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ayo, this video was hilarious. the crowd was dead ass silent like :dwillhuh:
somebody up that shyt please.

Thats video KILLED me. Caught it on Tosh.0....alot of his comedy is:whoa:, but he also has classics like THAT little treasure
 

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I usually play conversational "red rover." What that means is that I'll be relaxing, talking to friends that I showed up with, or dancing. If I hear a hot girl talking about something I know a lot about, I'll usually chime in with a joke or an opinion contradictory to hers in order to create the impulse in her to respond to me and defend her position.

I also don't just focus on one girl. I work an entire room if I can. I make friends with the guys in the area first. When the guys like you, you have "social proof" that makes you "safe" in girls' eyes. Barrier one broken down. If the guys who are supposed to defend them from creeps and stuff let their guard down, you can't be that bad, right?

Winning over her girlfriends is next. Chatting them up, finding common ground. For the uglier ones I don't want them to catch onto what my real goal is, so I try to keep it business and career related and find some common ground and good reason to maintain contact. Usually a referral to a friend's business/service or something. In any case you build a friendship and keep it platonic.

Then comes her. I tease playfully. I put my arm on her lower back or upper arm if her body language looks receptive. I smile, but not in a cheesy way, more like I'm up to something no good, or that I know something that she doesn't and it's hilarious. I laugh softly and with a little bit of cockiness. Not so much to make her think that I'm better than her, just enough to get her to think, "Oh WOW! This cocky guy likes me! I must be something special!" Now she feels safe and special because of you.

I also like to, if I'm really feeling it, order a unique, almost unheard of cocktail for her. I tell her something along the lines of, "You have to try this drink that someone made for me while I was traveling in [insert interesting place here]. Nobody knows about it, but it's amazing." (On a side note, a spending limit for others on a night out is $40.) This shows that I'm well-traveled, a person that likes to try new and interesting things, and that there's probably a lot more to me that she hasn't seen yet: a life that she might want to be a part of and that she'd better make a case for herself to stick around if she wants to see more of it. This makes her happy.

At this point, you've reached the holy trinity of what women want: To feel safe, to feel special, and to feel happy. They overlap, but that's the goal IMHO.

After that, you just gotta pull the trigger. Well, this is what works for me.

:obama:

A little too much work, but I'm somewhat familiar to that social tactic.

To that Coli chick, there are dudes here that have game. Better than you think
 

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naw, Im working on my game for ClassyME down the line... I need that girl..lol
 

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I'm socially awkward and nerdy....so no I don't have game. Or do I use those things to my advantage?? :heh: :shaq:
 
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