SPIN OF THE CENTURY: Has a chick ever forced you to improve when you were sprung?

[It is a mystery]

There's the other thread about choosing to prioritize women as #1 instead of acheiving goals or self-improvement being a bad choice, but has a woman you chopped it up with ever inspired you to improve yourself through her achievements?
I think I'm going through that

 

[Givethanks]

There's the other thread about choosing to prioritize women as #1 instead of acheiving goals or self-improvement being a bad choice, but has a woman you chopped it up with ever inspired you to improve yourself through her achievements?
I think I'm going through that

What kind of achievements are we talking about?

 

[It is a mystery]

What kind of achievements are we talking about?

any kind really. It could be career wise. It could be completing something. It could be learning a skill/artform etc.

 

[全能の神]

I met a chick that was heavy into art and painting. I actually started researching painters and shyt just to try to impress her.
























Didn't work

 

[audemarzz]

I met a chick that was heavy into art and painting. I actually started researching painters and shyt just to try to impress her.
























Didn't work

fix ur damn connection before we all get on tc

 

[DreadHead P]

Yes...


And the bytch still jumped ship

 

[Music Fiend]

Eh more like after the fact. It was rocky but that heartbreak had a youngin doing his thing for years praying she'd come back.


She became part of the game and that's that.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I know plenty examples of women that inspired or for there man to improve.

The best part is I don't think any of the example include it being forced.


A lot of times men need a woman in there life to settle them down or keep them focus.

When you only are responsible for yourself it's different than when your responsible for others or a family

 

[全能の神]

fix ur damn connection before we all get on tc

I swear it's not my fault

 

[Givethanks]

any kind really. It could be career wise. It could be completing something. It could be learning a skill/artform etc.

Nah i'm hard headed... I gotta fix that. I usually push them to better themselves in order to meet and fulfil my needs.

 

[1thouwow]

Bump

 

[Chrishaune]

Nope

Improve for yourself.

 

[Spectre]

I'm fairly motivated to always do better in life, but women in general at a young age was definitely a factor

It's like when you see the corny/avg dudes getting just as much if not more play than u



Got me thinking I'm funnier, smarter, got more game, dress better with less

How are we even competing for the same women? And then you realize the only reason why this corny dude is even on their radar is due to material things aka car, nice clothes, that's it nothing crazy just dress lowkey nicer and smell nice with a nice car. Don't have to be a baller to make that happen.

Once I realized how much American women care about money or the appearance lol.....




They've always ask so what u do for work? where do u live? by yourself? how often do u travel? where'd u park?

the game was never the same It's like the final touch.

 

[Xcenai]

my ex always tried to inspire me to do better despite all our problems. thats one thing I'll always appreciate and be thankful about her

she would always make me aware of my flaws, not in a bad way, but in way to overcome them and improve on them ... even when I didn't wanna hear it

 

[HabitualChiller]

I chopped it up with this girl that I met on Hinge for about 3 months.

To this day, she's the only woman that I've met that I can confidently say is waaaayyy out of my league regarding intellectual ability. Her diction was immaculate. Vocabulary and grammar downright perfect with a background in psychology to boot a (a bachelor's), so you can imagine the level of knowledge that she has pertaining to the human psyche.

I consider myself to be a great linguist, but she would have me asking for advice on how to respond to her texts. Idk. Maybe I was over-thinking it because of just how shocked I was. Anywho, she forced me to step my game up as an orator, writer and detail-oriented thinker.