SPIN OF THE CENTURY: Has a chick ever forced you to improve when you were sprung?

[ignorethis]

My first love made me better, but it was mostly holding me accountable the same way I held her accountable.

Responsible women with good maternal lineage will usually make you a better man somehow, but make you worse in other ways like neuroticism lmao.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

When I used to be a cheerleader and also part of dance team. Competition is heavy in high school.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Dunno if this has been posted but the reason a lot of dudes fall off is the woman.

 

[1thouwow]

When I used to be a cheerleader and also part of dance team. Competition is heavy in high school.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I chopped it up with this girl that I met on Hinge for about 3 months.

To this day, she's the only woman that I've met that I can confidently say is waaaayyy out of my league regarding intellectual ability. Her diction was immaculate. Vocabulary and grammar downright perfect with a background in psychology to boot a (a bachelor's), so you can imagine the level of knowledge that she has pertaining to the human psyche.

I consider myself to be a great linguist, but she would have me asking for advice on how to respond to her texts. Idk. Maybe I was over-thinking it because of just how shocked I was. Anywho, she forced me to step my game up as an orator, writer and detail-oriented thinker.

So what happened?

 

[Dave24]

Dunno if this has been posted but the reason a lot of dudes fall off is the woman.

How so?

 

[HabitualChiller]

So what happened?

I wasn't confident enough and lost her.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I chopped it up with this girl that I met on Hinge for about 3 months.

To this day, she's the only woman that I've met that I can confidently say is waaaayyy out of my league regarding intellectual ability. Her diction was immaculate. Vocabulary and grammar downright perfect with a background in psychology to boot a (a bachelor's), so you can imagine the level of knowledge that she has pertaining to the human psyche.

I consider myself to be a great linguist, but she would have me asking for advice on how to respond to her texts. Idk. Maybe I was over-thinking it because of just how shocked I was. Anywho, she forced me to step my game up as an orator, writer and detail-oriented thinker.

Probably over thought yourself out things

 

[HabitualChiller]

Probably over thought yourself out things

Yep. I would respond with detailed responses trying to answer any potential question before she even asked.

She deadass said "you seem to be an overthinker" .

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

How so?

Because it cost money to keep and maintain her for the most part. Dudes that get in these so called “relationships” spend valuable time and resources to try to make her happy. That’s crazy because you can put that time into yourself or your goals and that would probably be more beneficial than a woman. Don’t even bother getting her pregnant or married if it don’t work you’ll get penalized. It’s a wild game out here man

 

[Olmec]

Naw, I’m always focused on self improving. The worst is when a chick steals your swag or you improve her then once y’all break up she acts like she’s been up on things smh.

 

[Dave24]

Because it cost money to keep and maintain her for the most part. Dudes that get in these so called “relationships” spend valuable time and resources to try to make her happy. That’s crazy because you can put that time into yourself or your goals and that would probably be more beneficial than a woman. Don’t even bother getting her pregnant or married if it don’t work you’ll get penalized. It’s a wild game out here man

What about getting married and having kids @Yagirlcheatinonus

 

[MoveForward]

If you’re the type to get sprung over pwussy, you’re definitely gonna fall off. The average man isn’t about that MOB life…

Dudes simply don’t understand that you pulled her while you were focused on becoming the best version of yourself.

 

[Dave24]

If you’re the type to get sprung over pwussy, you’re definitely gonna fall off. The average man isn’t about that MOB life…

Dudes simply don’t understand that you pulled her while you were focused on becoming the best version of yourself.

I'm definitely the type who would get sprung over p*ssy and be a simp considering I am a virgin.

 

[Paper Boi]

forced isn't the right word.

but yes, multiple women have recognized my greatness and encouraged me to strive for more throughout my life/education/career.

ex girlfriends and my current SO.