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:patrice:what does that have to do with self consciousness?

:snoop: already told you you worry to much, i understand though i think it something we all think about
 

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Low confidence levels + anxiety + shyness + naturally being more introverted is a bad combo. I totally relate to this thread. I'm the same way. I've been "faking it until I make it" or whatever for years and have gotten way better but I still haven't gained the ability to magically not be this way. It takes a lot of work.
 

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I don't know, I want to say as long as I remember. I know I was around seven when I formed an opinion about myself. It snow balled from there. I am waaaay better now, but some of those things still linger and will probably never leave.

I just want you to know that

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:obama:
 

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:yeshrug: that is part of who I am. But this isn't so much about worry, it's hard to explain.

i still adore you breh :hug:

on another note

self-consciousness coincides with self-awareness. I think everyone should be intune with the nature of themselves though, despite it being that type of element i think things such as the aforemention within this thread can strengthen you (im speaking in a general sense).
 

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If I stare at myself in the mirror, it is not because I am admiring myself. It is because I am looking for what's wrong, trying to correct flaws etc so I can just walk around with as little worry as possible. I have found a way become better with a lot of things, but it will always be there to some degree. I will walk into the room if I am late vs. just leaving and not go in at all. I will look people in the eye if they talk to me (for at least a couple of minutes) etc...I don't even come off as super self conscious IRL but its all going on in my head. I come off confident but it's a facade, I have good posture from dance :yeshrug:

I'm the same way. I've been judging my body and face since I was a kid and I look at mirrors constantly but only to critique myself. Sometimes I'm able to be feeling myself but most of the time I never look quite right. I got like this starting in eighth grade. Back then it was more extreme though. I had a distorted image. I think my self-image is less distorted now.
 

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:smile: everyone come in here and add something you find nice about Raedawn, some things may be already said before u get here its ok, u can reuse compliments. I'll go first, @Raedawn07 u have a very beautiful smile :biggrin:
 

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:smile: everyone come in here and add something you find nice about Raedawn, some things may be already said before u get here its ok, u can reuse compliments. I'll go first, @Raedawn07 u have a very beautiful smile :biggrin:
:merchant: Oh no no no no. Thanks but no. I don't want it to be that kinda of thing. I was just putting it out there for people to relate.

:hug: THank you for being so sweet.
 

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:smile: everyone come in here and add something you find nice about Raedawn, some things may be already said before u get here its ok, u can reuse compliments. I'll go first, @Raedawn07 u have a very beautiful smile :biggrin:

Raedawn is so lovely. I've only seen ol girl's hair but her personality is what I base her loveliness off of. She always leaves very helpful comments in the threads I start. I think she has nothing to worry about. Beauty, class and brains.
 

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I'm the same way. I've been judging my body and face since I was a kid and I look at mirrors constantly but only to critique myself. Sometimes I'm able to be feeling myself but most of the time I never look quite right. I got like this starting in eighth grade. Back then it was more extreme though. I had a distorted image. I think my self-image is less distorted now.
This and you other post exactly. I still have somewhat of a distorted self image it has taken time and I had to grow up. I coudn't keep letting those things put hold on my life.


I just want you to know that

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:obama:

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@Raedawn07 Bless your peoples

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she has a very mysterious aura, it gave me a nostalgic lavender feeling, her hair is amazing and I think if she would have felt more comfortable on tinychat the other night, she would have opened up and revealed amazing things to us.

:to:

you can trust us Rae
 

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Raedawn is so lovely. I've only seen ol girl's hair but her personality is what I base her loveliness off of. She always leaves very helpful comments in the threads I start. I think she has nothing to worry about. Beauty, class and brains.
she has a very mysterious aura, it gave me a nostalgic lavender feeling, her hair is amazing and I think if she would have felt more comfortable on tinychat the other night, she would have opened up and revealed amazing things to us.

:to:

you can trust us Rae
:wow: that's the spirit guys, lets keep it up
 
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