Spin thread: How many brehs are actually looking to date or be with a woman?

[Buddy]

shyt I am. Legit told my mama on Mother's day that I been getting in "Husband Mode". Got im the best shape of my life, should be getting promoted next week and I just hope the bag is heavy. Then I'm back on the scene.

 

[Neuromancer]

shyt I am. Legit told my mama on Mother's day that I been getting in "Husband Mode". Got im the best shape of my life, should be getting promoted next week and I just hope the bag is heavy. Then I'm back on the scene.

Good shyt breh.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

I been married, but divorced like 5 years. I been seeing someone for like 2 years. we knew each other in high school.

Is this you:

 

[Rekkapryde]

My Wife and I are both on the same page if we ever call it quits haha. I can’t imagine dating again in my late 30’s. I’d wait until my daughters are grown before I find me another woman to die with.

Probably circle back to the Wifey.

Hearing more stories of cats spinnin the block.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I was a few month ago, but I'm good and content with being on my own currently.

Rather be single and have peace of mind than having to deal with someone else's issues and bullshyt.

I'm going to need someone to at least be close to I am financial wise as I'm not trying to have someone be a burden and foot the bill for them. I used to say that money didn't matter in a relationship, but recent situations have changed my mind

You don't have a gf?

 

[beenz]

Is this you:

nah, cuz she don't work at wendy's and she ain't married either

 

[Sad Bunny]

I just want true love in whatever form it arrives.

 

[Thavoiceofthevoiceless]

You don't have a gf?

Everyone has been pulling you out on in the Diddy/Cassie thread. Pull up in the thread and respond

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Everyone has been pulling you out on in the Diddy/Cassie thread. Pull up in the thread and respond

I already did and even made a separate thread addressing it.

Now your turn. You been on here talking all this trash about folks relationships and you ain't even got a gf?

 

[MajesticLion]

Good thread

 

[Neuromancer]

Good thread

Thanks I saw a lot of doom and gloom in the other thread. So I figured I'd make a thread asking questions.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Post-pandemic, dating fell off HARD.
I can set my watch to it

- Flirt over dating app
- Meet in person
- Chick is entitled and stuck up, no 2nd date


OR chick is feeling me, but shes dating 5 other dudes and 10 more are tryin to get at her

Fizzles out.

Ive reached the point where I wonder whats the point. For a little more than the cost of a 1st date you could buy some guaranteed

This x1000.

I’ve been single since November 2021. Been on dating apps and approaching in person.

I haven’t noticed a difference. Most women are moving the same these days. And me at 40 yrs old most of the women my age have 2-3 kids by different dudes or no kids but a headache to deal. All professional career women so no bum chicks.

Can’t count how many times I got a chicks number in the last 2 yrs and it leads to nothing with me doing the heavy lifting or it starting out hot and heavy only to die out in a month.

Also a lot of women are in “situationships” but claiming they’re single. So they end up mentally unavailable but still out here entertaining nikkas. At this point I just do me and like another breh said if “the one” happens to come my way I’ll act accordingly.

 

[Van Cleef]

 

[HabitualChiller]

OR chick is feeling me, but shes dating 5 other dudes and 10 more are tryin to get at her

This is the big one for me. If I find out that a girl is seeing multiple 'prospects', my feelings for her are limited off rip. It makes sense to treat dating like a series of jobs interviews initially, but I don't have a competitive bone in my body for that type of thing.

Knowing me, I'd probably treat her like a bro until we had sex

 

[LezJepzin]

Also a lot of women are in “situationships” but claiming they’re single. So they end up mentally unavailable but still out here entertaining nikkas. At this point I just do me and like another breh said if “the one” happens to come my way I’ll act accordingly.

This is what I'm dealing with where I'm at. Sick of playing "the numbers game." But if you don't, then they think there's something wrong with you not wanting to entertain five women at a time.

Don't got time for all of that .




I just want my peace at this point in my life. So save me your "toxic EX" stories for that other dude in your DMs


I feel like the right one will come around, just not where I'm currently at.