I think brehs in here are biased in these responses, especially because many are pawgset, and others in here have dated WW occasionally. They’ll paint the other group in a different light to take the light off their group.
But for those of us that have not dated or fukked white, that have observed and encountered both couplings, objectively both groups are more alike than they are different. In how they put whites on pedestals, often settle for a white that isn’t as attractive(basic Beckies, dusty Dustin’s), or that has less accomplishments, finances, etc—essentially a white person that gains more from the relationship. When blacks date out it tends to be dating down.
they each tend to have solid positive interactions with those within their gender—I.e bm that pawg exclusively will do a lot for other bm, have a lot of bm friends even and want to empower the other, likewise bw with wm, will have a lot of black female friends, be in groups that celebrate black womanhood and do things to help bw. These are the ways they show that they are down.
Yet they often have limited contact, interactions, and positive things to say about their gender opposite. The white person(Becky of Brad) may not even have black friends or connections to the black community. There’s a distance for brehs and brehettes in these arrangements when it comes to their black gender counterpart.
Both groups have had their moments shaming the other. Back in the nineties there were a number of talk shows, videos, interviews, and articles where many bm that pawged would throw bw under the bus stating that bw were gold diggers, had too much attitude, etc, while placing ww on pedestals. Ricky lake, jenny Jones, Maury, Montel etc. videos would be put up of bm with their ww making fun of bw(both of them together).
The tides started shifting, and in the last decade it’s been the reverse, with mainly bw doing what bucks used to. But make no mistake, there are many bucks that do feel some type of way about bw and do not just pawg and Kim. The difference is that they will keep that shyt to themselves, and not speak on it, but their negative feelings about bw is always there, in the back of their mind.
As the number of bw and wm continues to increase and get normalized in our community—which is taking place now, the number of bw that have this incessant need to talk about, justify, beg and parade their wm will die down just as it did for bm. And we’ll see that naturally these groups are very alike.
Why I think there is animosity? Whites. If you ever notice it a lot of bm hate wm, and vice versus. Wm hate bm too. So from that perspective and that of a male, which is territorial—they’ll never get behind a bw with a wm at all. On the other hand, they love the wms product: ww. It’s really the strangest and deepest conflict ever. Bw with wm have the same issue. They hate ww. Bw and ww do not like each other overall. Yet these women love the creators of ww: wm.
It makes sense that in the midst of this conflict they’d feel particularly angered at the other group being with what they consider their enemy. To justify and validate why their coupling isn’t as bad, as the bw who goes for the enemy, or the bm that goes for the enemy, they will often find ways to put down one another. In reality they have more in common than they do with black couples, and/or white couples.