Spin: would you get an abortion if...

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Sounds like your family ain't about shyt if their trying to put her in a home. That's trifling, if her own family doesn't care enough about her to properly take care of her, what do you expect from leaving her in the care of strangers?

My MOTHER suggested putting this girl in a home because my GRANDPARENTS are getting too old to take care of her.
I don't know if you completely missed where I said my grandfather has COPD AND pneumonia. He's in the hospital. My grandmother can't lift her up, because at 14 yrs old she's not particular light.
Both of my grandparents are at least 80 years old. So fukk you and fukk your judgemental ass.

 

[Doobie Doo]

I've been through this scenario, and it was heartbreaking holding a deformed child in my arms as the doctor pumped him full of morphine so he could stop crying and die peacefully. I've never cried that hard as an adult man.

I can honestly say, so far by a long shot, the saddest experience of my life. From someone who been there, abort the fetus. I am scared to have a kid for fear of going through that again.

 

[Prince Mongo]

My MOTHER suggested putting this girl in a home because my GRANDPARENTS are getting too old to take care of her.
I don't know if you completely missed where I said my grandfather has COPD AND pneumonia. He's in the hospital. My grandmother can't lift her up, because at 14 yrs old she's not particular light.
Both of my grandparents are at least 80 years old. So fukk you and fukk your judgemental ass.

Whatever, your family has to live with it. It's still trifling that she has no other family to lean on

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

No. Murder is murder

 

[13473]

no, i would not kill my child.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

I'm throwing that demon back to hell which it came from.

 

[Urahara_Kisuke]

 

[LurkMoar]

Of course. Suffering is inconvenient. It's also painful, taxing, and expensive.

And I'm not sure what your 2nd question means. How would a kid born w/o legs know he's suffering? Probably by spending his youth watching other kids run and play. That might be ya know... not great... as an example.

So what is the threshold of inconvenience for human life


And yea im sure the Kids bummed he cant run with the other kid i bet all day he thinks "I could have been aborted "

 

[Banned Account12]

I've been through this scenario, and it was heartbreaking holding a deformed child in my arms as the doctor pumped him full of morphine so he could stop crying and die peacefully. I've never cried that hard as an adult man.

I can honestly say, so far by a long shot, the saddest experience of my life. From someone who been there, abort the fetus. I am scared to have a kid for fear of going through that again.

damn breh

 

[BaldingSoHard]

So what is the threshold of inconvenience for human life

Don't know. It would depend on the circumstance.

And yea im sure the Kids bummed he cant run with the other kid i bet all day he thinks "I could have been aborted "

Wouldn't surprise me at all if a kid like that occasionally had suicidal thoughts.

 

[Ohene]

...bort

 

[CinnaSlim]

Sounds like your family ain't about shyt if their trying to put her in a home. That's trifling, if her own family doesn't care enough about her to properly take care of her, what do you expect from leaving her in the care of strangers?

Some times it is better to give the child to a care facility then to eventually grow to resent it for taking all your free time and stressing you out. You'll put both of you at risk that way.

 

[Prince Mongo]

Some times it is better to give the child to a care facility then to eventually grow to resent it for taking all your free time and stressing you out. You'll put both of you at risk that way.

If that child were never brought into the world there'd be no problem

 

[CinnaSlim]

If that child were never brought into the world there'd be no problem

Well when they've already been born and living for over a decade. If's and but's are useless. What's important is doing what's best for them now.

 

[At30wecashout]

100% behind abortion in these circumstances. Im not one of those types to say "Thats my little miracle" when they can barely function, my credit is fukked, caring for my child takes up every waking moment, and the thought of murder-suicide crosses my mind after a decade plus of sleep deprivation and a child who will never bring me the same joy a normal one would, and most importantly, a child who will forever be trapped under the lottery of bad genes.

In fact, it would probably put me at odds with the woman I love if she selfishly brings a child into this world who will live a shallow, possibly resentment filled existence.