Spin: Younger Brehs what do you feel older brehs don't understand about modern dating and why it's become so difficult?

[The ADD]

Breh.

I was seeing this one woman for the past few weeks.

5 dates - 3 outdoor dates and 2 house dates where we had sex.

She’s now ghosted me and this is after she was talking about the next date and what were gonna do

I ain’t mad because I KNOW I ain’t do nothing wrong I’m just simply part of HER ROTATION and she’s been messing with other brehs/orbiters/ex all this time.

This is what these old DUMB nikkas don’t get. Women are now acting like men in the dating game in the sense of being CUTTHROAT because of social media and the inflated options they now have.

Now with my story this was after 5 dates and even smashing. Some men don’t even get to smash or get ghosted BEFORE a date even happens or after spending big bread yet these old nikkas be like “y’aLL jUsT aInT TrY hArD EnOuGH” “y’AaL jUsT cOrNy”

At least you blazed twice

 

[Ohene]

The game is different. They were playing against plumbers and mailmen in their era. Even the centers can shoot threes now. In the same vein, even demographics that were stereotypically looked over are competing at a higher level. To give you an idea of what I mean, the average genz east asian/Indian American male probably towers over their parents, is much more charismatic than past generations, pack the gyms, and that's all coupled with some of the positive things they already had going for them. It used to be only athletes hit the gym, but the average young guy goes at least occasionally. The base competition level has risen dramatically and women are spoiled for choice. And you aren't just competing with the guys in your neighborhood or city or the guys on campus, social media and dating apps make your competition nationwide, hell even spanning borders.

Both genders are too hyper-aware for their own good. Unfettered internet access from the womb makes for a knowledgeable but neurotic pop. Women used to only have their peers and their relatively small network to consult for male issues and inquiries. Today, they have the male hating feminazis and the career sugar babies/prostitutes and to guide them. They can tune into citygirl "use these men and keep a roster" content and strategy and in the flick of the wrist, tune into homegirl "focus on career, you don't need a man" content and strategy. You can't "run game" on people who already know all the plays. Both genders already studied each other's playbooks, already watched countless film and have already been coached by the greats via internet. There's too much insider knowledge out there

Another thing is that everybody wants the absolute best. It's race to the top. How can you be content with an average Joe when you see what looks like countless women living a life you envy. You can't. Race to the top. Every generation gets better. There's a reason why top tier schools are vastly harder to get into than before, there's a reason why the standards are higher for athletes. There's a reason why you can't just walk in and ask to meet the manager for a job.You would have to be an idiot to think it all doesn't extend to dating

well put but it will fall on deaf ears

i like the bolded too...thats why i said some of these issues hurt women too.

 

[DJSmooth]

First lets separate It's two different type of nikkas

1. One set is complaining that they can't get girls because they don't leave the house and won't put the video games and porn down.

2. The other set that do get girls are complaining that these young girls are off the chain and acting like the new nikkas.

 

[Ohene]

First lets separate It's two different type of nikkas

1. One set is complaining that they can't get girls because they don't leave the house and won't put the video games and porn down.

2. The other set that do get girls are complaining that these young girls are off the chain and acting like the new nikkas.

SIMPLE.

Dudes always assume the men complaining (or not even complaining but just explaining how things are) cant get p*ssy.
What if dudes dont just want community p*ssy?

 

[Neuromancer]

How was that experience?

Pretty good TBH. My fiancee is pretty willing to discuss issues and talk about anything.

 

[Neuromancer]

SIMPLE.

Dudes always assume the men complaining (or not even complaining but just explaining how things are) cant get p*ssy.
What if dudes dont just want community p*ssy?

I think you're asking about getting a wife or partner. A lot of these dudes don't know anything about that it seems.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Breh.

I was seeing this one woman for the past few weeks.

5 dates - 3 outdoor dates and 2 house dates where we had sex.

She’s now ghosted me and this is after she was talking about the next date and what were gonna do

I ain’t mad because I KNOW I ain’t do nothing wrong I’m just simply part of HER ROTATION and she’s been messing with other brehs/orbiters/ex all this time.

This is what these old DUMB nikkas don’t get. Women are now acting like men in the dating game in the sense of being CUTTHROAT because of social media and the inflated options they now have.

Now with my story this was after 5 dates and even smashing. Some men don’t even get to smash or get ghosted BEFORE a date even happens or after spending big bread yet these old nikkas be like “y’aLL jUsT aInT TrY hArD EnOuGH” “y’AaL jUsT cOrNy”

You nikkas don’t even understand the question that’s being asked. That no child left behind act was a motherfukka….

 

[MikelArteta]

The game is different. They were playing against plumbers and mailmen in their era. Even the centers can shoot threes now. In the same vein, even demographics that were stereotypically looked over are competing at a higher level. To give you an idea of what I mean, the average genz east asian/Indian American male probably towers over their parents, is much more charismatic than past generations, pack the gyms, and that's all coupled with some of the positive things they already had going for them. It used to be only athletes hit the gym, but the average young guy goes at least occasionally. The base competition level has risen dramatically and women are spoiled for choice. And you aren't just competing with the guys in your neighborhood or city or the guys on campus, social media and dating apps make your competition nationwide, hell even spanning borders.

Both genders are too hyper-aware for their own good. Unfettered internet access from the womb makes for a knowledgeable but neurotic pop. Women used to only have their peers and their relatively small network to consult for male issues and inquiries. Today, they have the male hating feminazis and the career sugar babies/prostitutes and to guide them. They can tune into citygirl "use these men and keep a roster" content and strategy and in the flick of the wrist, tune into bossgirl "focus on career, you don't need a man" content and strategy. The smarter women practice a bit of both. You can't "run game" on people who already know all the plays. Both genders already studied each other's playbooks, already watched countless film and have already been coached by the greats via internet. There's too much insider knowledge out there

Another thing is that everybody wants the absolute best. It's race to the top. How can you be content with an average Joe when you see what looks like countless women living a life you envy. You can't. Race to the top. Every generation gets better. There's a reason why top tier schools are vastly harder to get into than before, there's a reason why the standards are higher for athletes. There's a reason why you can't just walk in and ask to meet the manager for a job.You would have to be an idiot to think it all doesn't extend to dating. I haven't even begun to talk about inherent almost insurmountable advantages that exist like genetics or a certain standing. In this race to the top the "average" guy is seen as insufficient, even though he might have been a catch a few decades ago

All Ryze

 

[MikelArteta]

Who said I was whining about it

I even laughed at the whole thing.

I simply used it as an example as to how women move in todays dating game which is that they now move like men.

I already know how these women are and have adapted.

But there are plenty of men who don’t. Men who are looking for partners, men who spend a lot of money on dates, men who do not play the field, men who do “everything right” and this type of shyt happens to them.

Then men aren’t doing anything wrong, the women have simply CHANGED because we’re now in a digital age.

Yeah you have to adapt the mentality that every woman you're going out with is talking to and going out with a bunch of other brehs. And then as a man adapt as well. Before I met my wife I went out like 5 times with this chick, I was always the one doing everything, back in the day I would have just focused on one woman etc. but I know how the game was so meh ended up getting closer and liking my wife more and just pulled away from the other chick.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Yeah you have to adapt the mentality that every woman you're going out with is talking to and going out with a bunch of other brehs. And then as a man adapt as well. Before I met my wife I went out like 5 times with this chick, I was always the one doing everything, back in the day I would have just focused on one woman etc. but I know how the game was so meh ended up getting closer and liking my wife more and just pulled away from the other chick.

To counter new age women men have to be dating at least 3-4 women at the same time. The problem is most men cannot do this and struggle to either get 1 or just don't want to be focusing on multiple women. Hell most men would tell that your lying explaining how women today move. This is where the imbalance is.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

STOP listening to OLD nikkas who ain’t in the game and haven’t adapted to the digital/social media era which has women acting like men in the dating game.

Y’all have just seen an old nikka like Shannon Sharpe get gamed by a young chick.

But Coli OLD nikkas will tell you they’re smashing younger women without breaking off bread


STOP listening to them.

Some of them even admit that the Rules of Engagement has changed. "I'm glad I met my wife before social media"

SIMPLE.

Dudes always assume the men complaining (or not even complaining but just explaining how things are) cant get p*ssy.
What if dudes dont just want community p*ssy?

Yeah, that's the type of patronizing I was referring to earlier. Acknowledging a change (whether good or bad) doesn't mean you're failing to adapt. shyt, I might have some problems, but women ain't one of them.

 

[Apollo Creed]

To counter new age women men have to be dating at least 3-4 women at the same time. The problem is most men cannot do this and struggle to either get 1 or just don't want to be focusing on multiple women. Hell most men would tell that your lying explaining how women today move. This is where the imbalance is.

Thats the thing. As a Man with shyt to lose and not an idiot, dealing with idiot chicks gets old. The vetting of new roster members gets annoying because after a while you realize everyone is dumb lol. The gift if it forces you to find completion in other things which is something most men never do (they get stuck in the cycle of chasing women or leveling up to impress a woman). Once a man finds fulfillment in self you become indifferent to the stupidity and just take life as it is. I think the main issue for men who get women is those who want kids, but if you don't want kids then this is actually the best era because the burden of having to be responsible for a woman is no longer here.

 

[CourtesyFlush]

I guess anything below 33?

Damn I'm