Spinach: What are reasons you stopped liking a girl you used to think was dope?

NoirDynosaur

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Starts revealin how fukked up her past is/emotional vomit way too early

All or most her exes were losers/abusers/thugs/vagabonds

Shows thot tendencies

Finds out she cant cook

Wack in bed and not willing to be open

Has too much social media presence

Has too many guy friends/acquiantances

Sheesh! Homie got standards I respect it.

Attitude and Outlook is important for me. I dealt with a lot of "bad bytches" in my early 20's that were emotionally chaotic. One of em got fired me from my first job.

Now I just vet hard. Men the prize anyways
 
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-women who flake on plans. I’m an EXTREMELY busy person. So if I make plans with you i’m really taking time to spend it with you. If you don’t respect my time then you don’t respect me. Period. I give a woman early on two chances with that kind of stuff because I understand that emergencies happen, but ain’t no emergency happening twice in a row. You playing games and need to be cut off.


-Women who are too religious/in to the church. I’ll give a woman some leeway if they say they want a man whose is Spiritually sound or believes in a higher power. Cool. But the “You MUST believe in Jesus. Our lord and savior blah blah”. Nah we have no future.


-Women who complain about EVERYTHING. Not just real shyt thats going on, but literally EVERYTHING. Lets me know your not at peace with yourself.


-Women who only want your attention when you ignore them. This ain’t high school. All them petty games are over. If we like each other and are pursuing something, then a reasonable amount of communication is fine. If i’m not receiving that communication then i’m out. Don’t start texting/calling me after I STOPPED texting/calling you on some “Hey Big Head” nonsense. Keep that same energy cause i’m already over


-Women who watch too much reality television. If you know every storyline on love and Hip Hop but think that news stories on CNN are “too depressing” to keep up with current events then SHAME on your entire family.

-Women who go ghost and try to hit you up weeks/months later. What kind of fool do you take me for:wtf:. You weren’t “Super Busy With Work”. You didn’t “Have to take some personal time to find yourself”. You weren’t “mentally fatigued and afraid to expose me to too much too soon”. You finally figured out that your ex was just using you as late night cum bucket and had zero plans of wifing you and you need a rebound pick me up. fukk outta here:camby:
 

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No cooking skills

Cant read the vibe and when its great to talk and when its great to just chill and enjoy the silence.

Dirty living space. If I visit your place and there are clothes on the floor and the bathroom and kitchen are scummy, I'm going to judge you.

Thankfully the women I deal with have high standards of cleanliness

Also personal hygiene. But again the women I deal with I've never had to deal with them smelling bad.

And the most important, no discretion.
 

Ahadi

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You’re in a completely different space and level from her.

There’s no point in investing in her because she has no use in your life.
 

Actually6Foot3

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Ngl I'm about to bush this pretty ass chic.

She's the type to underplay good shyt you do and overplay bad shyt. Sometimes she's cracking jokes but it's getting annoying when you can't decipher the jokes from the serious shyt every time.

I halfway did when I didn't hit her up for a week and change but she hit me on some freak shyt and a bit:snoop:

Suppose to link with her tomorrow at my spot so we'll see
 
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