It's all about Balance, and body language.....
I've had chicks I've simped for in my mind but never kissed their ass face to face.... one bytch I was sitting right next to just about to drop the "I can't stop thinking about u" bomb and got choked up n didn't let it come out.... n 5 minutes later I found out she had a kid & became bushes status...
I take the Fresh Prince approach to pickup, if I'm not already on some chill shyt Ima be extra with my approach cause I know 9/10 Ima get the desired reaction, a blush or laugh or whatever.... when u look good sayn playerish things help keep congruency and I don't think it comes off as thirsty cause when u outlandish it let's em know u not heavily invested & dgaf, women hate a nikka who look good/fly n don't have the charisma/personality to match......
But I'm quick to hit a bytch like Kleon to let her know she ain't special n I'm not gone simp, dude talk to females the way I do once I got the digits..... my brehs should watch his clips to get the vibe u wanna have.... girl I'm just interested