Spitting Game vs Simping/Gassing Up

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I have a gf. So I don't have to deal with that. Do I compliment her? Yeah, but only when she deserves it. I'm not complimenting a woman I don't know. Bria Myles herself could be talking to me. Me telling her good she looks is like throwing rain drops in the ocean. Everyone has done that. If she tells me something that I find fascinating then I might gas her. But not off the humble.
GF: You think I look good in this dress?

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I feel that gassing up is pretty much whats being said in these songs.

"You dont need no nikka for nothing"
"You too cute to be paused on a facetime"
"You nice for what to these nikkas?"


Like letting a woman know that they are above it all.

Calling a woman cute is a compliment.

Saying she too cute to be told to relax is gassing
All those lines sound good in a song but in a regular conversation, I'd overhear a dude saying it and think he corny as hell :hhh: like they sound pre-written, he was ready to spit that shyt for brownie points. Spitting game should be natural and usually you ain't thinking about giving random compliments to someone you just met. Now if you notice shortie works out or something, then that's natural. But randomly saying "you don't need no nikka for nothing" just meeting shortie is cornballish imo lol.
 

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The only difference between gassing someone up and simping is the other persons reception to it.
If they like you even corny shyt gets panty passes. Real talk nikka

All that needs to be said.

Chatting to this chick atm and I know she's feeling me as I'm purposefully being corny at certain moments and she's still on it.
 

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fukk simping and fukk gassing up/gaming

Tricking is where it’s at :ahh:
 

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You can have good results when you talk to women like the regular people they are. Mixing in a little valid compliment here and there works. Idk if I would consider myself a gamespitter, but that simping shyt is definitely corny.

But everyone's approach is different and different people respond to different things also. Results may vary.
 

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You can spit game without giving any compliments to a woman. I rarely compliment women when I'm macking :mjlol:
Sometimes women read the tone more than the words. There's a certain type of... urgency that a man has when he's not explicitly complimenting, but really wanna get to know you. It can sweep you up.

Compliments are a rote attempt to re-create that energy.
 

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I feel that gassing up is pretty much whats being said in these songs.

"You dont need no nikka for nothing"
"You too cute to be paused on a facetime"
"You nice for what to these nikkas?"

Like letting a woman know that they are above it all.

Calling a woman cute is a compliment.

Saying she too cute to be told to relax is gassing

I call that simping, kissing ass, or old nikka game lol.

I told this one chick she took nice pics and that was it because I wasn’t going to gas her ass up.

I’m not really a compliment giver, and girls always go out their way for me to compliment them on something.

I remember this one chick was telling me to look at her hair, I’m oblivious, I look and I think to myself “is she losing her hair or something?” I told her idk what u want me to see, she said she dyed her hair lmao.

So yeah, I don’t compliment at all really.

“You too cute to be paused on a FaceTime”

:russ:
 

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I gas up is when the dikk sucking is not that good but I don't want her to stop :manny:

When I spit game I don't gas up per say, I'm more pro-active and try to push the issue forward quick. "Look, I like X about you and I want to dig deeper. Lemme get your number/let's go to..."

Besides that I give genuine compliments for things that impress me. The way she dressed, a perspective I never had, an accomplishment... It might not happen often but when it does it's well deserved.

Saying someone is "too pretty to be paused on FaceTime" is not only simping it's a lie. Gassing up is just straight up lying and being over the top to me.
 
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