She came up with the plan and when shes tired of it just go ahead and change it. Sounds reasonable
Splitting house duties...
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She came up with the plan and when shes tired of it just go ahead and change it. Sounds reasonable
Now she came up with a plan that they both devised and agreed upon...Would it matter who came up with what? Especially if it's not working out for both? Sounds like you want to place blame here ...
It's not working... how do you fix it?
blackestofpanthers
God forgives, you are forgiven.
Nothing wrong with it. I've been cooking and doing my own laundry since i was around 12. See no reason for that to change just because i'm with someone.
Ok they came up with it. From op it sounds like its working for him but not for her. She just wants to change it up because she doesn't want to do it anymore.
Ok they came up with it. From op it sounds like its working for him but not for her. She just wants to change it up because she doesn't want to do it anymore.
And what's wrong with changing it up?
... The fact that the men don't want to switch every other month is an admission that the plan is an imbalance of duties...That ....... you do is annoying.And what's wrong with changing it up?
Habit- sorry
Different world now, women have to work unlike back in the day when their role was solely taking care of the house, so it's only right that men split some of the cooking/cleaning duties. She agreed to that shyt, seems like a quick fix would be just rotate and have him handle dinner a few nights or if she cooks he can clean, either way I absolutely believe that if both husband and wife work then both should do house work. Now if the wife, or even the husband, only has a lil part time gig then she/he should handle the majority of the housework.
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it depends on they original deal & if your boy voided the contract, if she come home from workin & do her job & he come home like "it aint that dirty" 
then 
... they need to retalk this & get on the same page.... pick the right battle before the war...
only rule i had i ill wash the clothes, ill put the clothes away, but i aint foldin the shyt... unless emergency... we took turns on cookin, kids, money, everything... i said it in another thread i was raised to hold my own & ill share duties wit my chick but she gon know i can do all that shyt myself... no thinkin i depend on you & will best lost if you left.....
my chicks got mad cause i wouldnt depend on em more... so yeah i said "baby i want you to rest, you worked hard today
"...
in the back of my head was "i love you, but i dont need to do a damn thing for me
"
then ... they need to retalk this & get on the same page.... pick the right battle before the war...only rule i had i ill wash the clothes, ill put the clothes away, but i aint foldin the shyt... unless emergency... we took turns on cookin, kids, money, everything... i said it in another thread i was raised to hold my own & ill share duties wit my chick but she gon know i can do all that shyt myself... no thinkin i depend on you & will best lost if you left.....
my chicks got mad cause i wouldnt depend on em more... so yeah i said "baby i want you to rest, you worked hard today
"...in the back of my head was "i love you, but i dont need to do a damn thing for me
"
Heafcliffe
Hope there's puddin' in the clink...
My wife and I didn't really have a meeting or anything but our chores kinda go like dis:
- she cooks 6 days a week (she's the better chef); I cook 1 day a week (I typically buy something
, fukk dat kitchen ish)
- I take out the trash and all the yard work which is a bish
- I wash all clothes
- we split breakfast on the weekend typically
- she does the grocery shopping
It works for us.
- she cooks 6 days a week (she's the better chef); I cook 1 day a week (I typically buy something
, fukk dat kitchen ish)- I take out the trash and all the yard work which is a bish
- I wash all clothes
- we split breakfast on the weekend typically
- she does the grocery shopping
It works for us.
I don't understand how that's bad tho
I I would want my girl to do is cook clean the kitchen then suck me, but she doesn't have to work a job and I'll do everything else like cut grass, smoke grass, vacuum, wipe stuff down
I I would want my girl to do is cook clean the kitchen then suck me, but she doesn't have to work a job and I'll do everything else like cut grass, smoke grass, vacuum, wipe stuff down
NobodyReally
Superstar
Me and hubby split responsibilities. I cook mostly, and he cleans the kitchen after me. We both clean the house at the same time and pick up after ourselves. I have noticed though, that he prefers to take out the trash and I usually end up cleaning the toilets. That doesn't really bother me because I don't like half-assed cleaned toilets. All in all, so far, so good.
i do all the housework majority of the time. i cook clean take care of the kids fukk the wife and chill
she helps out too. i have no complaints in this area cuz i choose to do it this way and if i ask her to do something she will do it no matter what
if i wanna not clean or cook or anything else i tell her and she will do it
she helps out too. i have no complaints in this area cuz i choose to do it this way and if i ask her to do something she will do it no matter what
if i wanna not clean or cook or anything else i tell her and she will do it
FinesseKing
Banned
My wife does ALL of the cooking and cleaning and I pay ALL of the bills. fukking I look like washing a dish? My pops didn't have to clean and I'm not either.
NobodyReally
Superstar
That's why you marry an OCD neat freak. Whatever you do, it's not the right way and they take over
"Bae, what are you doing? You scrub clockwise. Here let me show you."
*starts scrubbing demonstration*
"Okay..yeah....ok..yeah. Got it"
*starts scrubbing exactly like she did it*
"No. You have to take the scrub and......You know what? Just move out the way, I got it"
Plus....When she's running around the house doing the homely duties in some tights and a T
