Splitting house duties...

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Kinda remind of a living situation i had with my girl where we agreed that once we move in together i would be responsible for the rent and she would be respobsible for everything else like utility, groceries and cable...only the groceries was over $100 but yet she still found a way to bytch whenever i bring up the fact that the fridge should Never be empty to the point where i can't even fukking make a peanut butter & jelly sandwich. shyt pissed my soul off, cant wait to meet someone that is true to their word smh.
 

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Saying, "hey baby, this kitchen work is stressing me out to the max...what do you think about me doing the laundry, bathroom, and bedrooms this month?" is throwing a tantrum like a child?

Y'all gotta stop being unreasonable... sometimes folks need a break... if you wanted reprieve from something and you went to your partner looking for it, you would expect some sort of understanding...

Be mature, brehs.
 

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This is where having kids comes into play..

Once they turn 5-6 give them chores. That cuts your household duties in half :blessed:
 

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my dude it also says he says he doesn't really clean during the week cause its not that much during the week which leads me to believe that he cleans during the week its just not that much to do except probably make bed and pick up a few things around the house and on the weekends he''ll clean bathroom, laundry and whatever else. you still only picking and choosing what you wanna read cause if you would've read the whole thing you can assume such things just use your context clues.
im done wit this.... i see you keep conveniently skippin the part where i said they need to sit down & get on the same page if its causin problems... im not on the chicks side, already explained why i would assumed hed be cleanin somethin each day....
 

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im done wit this.... i see you keep conveniently skippin the part where i said they need to sit down & get on the same page if its causin problems... im not on the chicks side, already explained why i would assumed hed be cleanin somethin each day....

my dude its been established that they need to sit down and talk bout it shyt i made the thread so I'm talking bout it but I'm pointing out where you said this

yall brehs hypocritical as fukk & your boy lookin stupid as fukk right now... it was clearly stated they agreed to do their jobs "EVERY NIGHT" in your post, she does her job daily & dude put his shyt off til the weekend... this whole shyt is stupid, she should be like :usure: til the weekend then.. look back at the OP....

key shyt says, "EVERY NIGHT" i dont see shyt that says "ON THE WEEKEND"... your boy on that typical bullshyt... tell that lazy breh get up & keep the deal or renigotiate, he on some bullshyt..."keep his word or keep his mouth closed"

you were wrong on that part thats all i was saying but you see it one way i see it another :yeshrug:
 

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my dude its been established that they need to sit down and talk bout it shyt i made the thread so I'm talking bout it but I'm pointing out where you said this
you were wrong on that part thats all i was saying but you see it one way i see it another :yeshrug:
its all good breh, already said i just made an assumption based on how it was worded, my mistake, my brother did this but he was just bein lazy, thats what i was lookin at... when it gets asked if she should be able to change the deal cause she do it daily & he dont, they gotta sit down.. all that "she agreed to cook" ok fair, but he agreed to clean... even if he think its clean enough i bet she could find some bullshyt chore for him, thats how they are... only 3 options i see here...

my point was just if she doin somethin daily, he should do somethin, anythin, daily if only to get her to shut the fukk up about it...if not, sit her ass down & tell her the house dont need daily cleanin like that & figure out somethin else so shell shut the fukk up... i know ive done shyt around the house i thought was stupid just to make her happy & shut her up...
 
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