Squander 100k In Child Support Money, Brehettes...

[NobodyReally]

I dont know if I was tagged in here so I can give excuses for this woman or condemn her but I will say this...

It seems like so many people want to sit and talk about people's failures and what someone is doing wrong.

What are you doin to improve these situations? What solutions are you giving?

People need to look inward and see what they can improve on themselves as well as how they can help others.

I mean... what do you really want me to say?


I think that this woman needs to learn personal responsibility, time and money management skills and maybe some self-worth and ambition.

She needs to believe that anything is possible for her kids, however many people especially poor black people are disillusioned into thinking they can only achieve so much and anyone that excels past the status quo is an exception.

Also, I think that all the name calling on this site is a process of "othering" and cutting connections so that people can feel better about themselves while looking down on others.

Girl, I wanna rep you so bad, but the site says I have to spread rep to others first.

 

[Poitier]

What are you doin to improve these situations? What solutions are you giving?

Only Black Women can answer this.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Also, I think that all the name calling on this site is a process of "othering" and cutting connections so that people can feel better about themselves while looking down on others.

 

[Wild self]

All she had to do was stash 40k and live off whatever was left after the FREE 100k was taxed

But you never hear feminists protest against them

 

[Easy-E]

sometimes its exactly that tho. fucced up as it may be. women can be married and end up single mothers. all single moms arent single moms just cuz they decided to try the keep a nicca baby approach.

And I agree. But, a large percent of single mother ain't divorcees.

This isn't a shot at you, sis. But, the majority don't fall under the category of kind lady left by her husband for a younger women. 2/3 of the divorves in America r filed by women. And the biggest reason is money issues.

Plus, after a quick search; there r a lot of young and uneducated women making babies:

As of 2011, 62 percent of women age 20 to 24 who gave birth in the previous 12 months were unmarried. This compares with 17 percent among women age 35 to 39.
The report shows us that more than half (57 percent) of women with less than a high school degree in 2011, who had given birth in the past year were unmarried, the highest percentage among the education groups. In contrast, only 9 percent of recent mothers with a bachelor’s degree or higher were unmarried.
http://blogs.census.gov/2013/05/01/differences-in-statistics-about-births-to-unmarried-women/

And I'm sure if I did a good search it'll validate this census blog.

I'm sorry; women have no one but themselves (outside of rape) to blame. And, yes, men r equally to blame.

 

[Wild self]

She did say she was homeless so she probably used the money to play catch up on bills and debt, then acquire proper housing for her and the kids.

Only thing I don't agree with is her turning down job offers (or just not accepting them for whatever reason) handed to her since the story broke yet still be unemployed.

Nah, she stashed it and didn't give a fukk about anything but herself. Imagine the kids when they know the truth. They gonna send her ass into a nursing home when she gets old.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

And I agree. But, a large percent of single mother ain't divorcees.

This isn't a shot at you, sis. But, the majority don't fall under the category of kind lady left by her husband for a younger women. 2/3 of the divorves in America r filed by women. And the biggest reason is money issues.

Plus, after a quick search; there r a lot of young and uneducated women making babies:

As of 2011, 62 percent of women age 20 to 24 who gave birth in the previous 12 months were unmarried. This compares with 17 percent among women age 35 to 39.
The report shows us that more than half (57 percent) of women with less than a high school degree in 2011, who had given birth in the past year were unmarried, the highest percentage among the education groups. In contrast, only 9 percent of recent mothers with a bachelor’s degree or higher were unmarried.
http://blogs.census.gov/2013/05/01/differences-in-statistics-about-births-to-unmarried-women/

And I'm sure if I did a good search it'll validate this census blog.

I'm sorry; women have no one but themselves (outside of rape) to blame. And, yes, men r equally to blame.

thats cuz all u need to be able to make a baby is the ability to bleed. im not gonna disagree with u one bit but there all all different types of single mothers but dont judge one for the mistakes of others is all im saying

 

[Wild self]

like i said, you give a woman a million bucks and she will spend a million bucks. but women like @PartyHeart try to make it some type of black male conspiracy against black women when you look at the wealth disparity between genders

She wants to be a part of that shyt, too. Spending child support on herself and leaving her kids looking bummy and hungry.

 

[Wild self]

Females have no problem generalizing when they want to criticize males but they want males to be extra specific and detail-oriented when criticizing females.

Keep up the double standards, brehettes...

They keep this up, no one will defend them anymore. They aint fooling anyone anymore.

 

[Wild self]

Single mothers are ruined hoes, they have no homemaking/cooking skills(they give kids popcorn, candy, sodas, and microwave pizzas ) proper education for effectively raising kids, or be a good relationship partner(they had offspring with men who have nothing going on in their lives)they are ruining every thing they touch, and ruining their fukking b*stard offspring. Obviously they are ruining the lives of the swagless, no gamer simps that choose to be with them. Only world-class simps would raise b*stard kids/leftovers from another man. because of thirst for used up, worn, past their prime p*ssy.

I give them the proudly when I see them. I don't fukk with them in any situation and circumstance.

How can anyone defend these women? Like what she does goes against God. Simps and these women are ruining society.

 

[Wild self]

If a man pays child support and a woman uses that money on rent, is that not for the child because that child needs a place to stay and at that time its with the custodial parent.

Not arguing that she shouldn't put the money in a trust. If I said it, point out where. I'm not even wholly defending her because i'm sure she's had job offers by now, whether its from a generous person or one of the many interviews.

@ them answers. Using child support for rent when the kid itself suffers or gets undermined.

 

[Wild self]

Society at large are for single mothers like they are innocent victims.

Like they are innocent children.

No. Single motherhood is mostly engineered by bad partner selection, keeping the kids because they know the man will give them alimony(its forced, if the man doesn't pay, he goes to jail) and the goverment will support them by giving them checks, female stupidity, entitlement(like i want to turn this drug-dealing thug with a good mouthpiece into a perfect caricature of a nice devoted family man and husband , and at the same time ignore the dudes who might be doing what she wants, but they lame) and most importantly, ECONOMIC PROSPERITY since 1945 in the western world.

Single motherhood can exist and thrive because America and other western nations are rich and can afford themselves to give away a lot of money and social programs. And the current social environnement, enhanced by ''state and media backed'' feminism that produce countless thirsty simps. If they look good they know some guy will for them. The social shaming for single mothers is at a low point. They are supported by society, and have a good image of themselves because the media and other people are telling them that they are strong, independant for raising kids alone, and that they are victims of patriarchy and other men.

shyt like that that I wish a movement goes against these hoes and their "feminism" nonsense.

 

[Wild self]

Dont group all single mothers with that trash

Well, kill her if she is so evil

She making single mothers look bad and everyone around her for her

 

[sanityovar8ted]

@ them answers. Using child support for rent when the kid itself suffers or gets undermined.

some stuff she posted imma a lil ehhh on but rent thats most definitely support of the child. maKing sure the child has a stable and safe place to lay its head is apart of support. udont wanna pay for the child a nice environment to live take full custody n be done with it.

 

[Wild self]

That sounds like a Republican reaction