Standards When it Comes to Relationships

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Can't be mad at somebody else because you don't agree with their standards.

Just know that most of these standards read more like wish lists than actual standards.

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... Now here's where I bust in and ask all yall nikkas if you meet the requirements you ask?:usure:

Yes, I most certainly do.

bruh....i don't know WHY these dudes do NOT inquiry about when a chick last looked at her credit score or ever looked at it. I could NEVER skip over that in the courting phase. It's vital

It's a very intrusive question but one that you don't have to necessarily ask to find the answer. I can and would rather deduct whether someone was responsible or irresponsible with finances on my own.

He has to be the same type of person I am related to character, education, health, family orientation, financial earning power and financial responsibility, religion, physical attractiveness, beliefs about marriage, running a household and raising children and etc. Of course taller than me in heels.

So, would you disregard a man that had all of this if he were as tall as you(without heels) or shorter? How much flexibility is in this list?
The better question is how much you would bend on that for someone you were feeling :sas1:

The flexibility of my list is in my mate's appearance. I'm not too stringent on that. The only other thing I may bend on is the children... and the max is 1. She better be a phenomenal human being, not still f**king her baby daddy/ex-boyfriends, ect. Since I don't have any children, I prefer a woman without children.
 

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Yes, I most certainly do.



It's a very intrusive question but one that you don't have to necessarily ask to find the answer. I can and would rather deduct whether someone was responsible or irresponsible with finances on my own.



So, would you disregard a man that had all of this if he were as tall as you(without heels) or shorter? How much flexibility is in this list?


The flexibility of my list is in my mate's appearance. I'm not too stringent on that. The only other thing I may bend on is the children... and the max is 1. She better be a phenomenal human being, not still f**king her baby daddy/ex-boyfriends, ect. Since I don't have any children, I prefer a woman without children.

If that's the way you want to put it "disregard" then yes. I'm not dating a man that is 5'4 it shorter. I'm not sorry about it either.
 

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Must have a stable work history. (At least 3 years.)
High school graduate (bachelors preferred)
No kids (wants only 1)
Must have:
  • Their own hobbies
  • Friends
  • Family relationships (preferably with a father)
  • Gym membership
No weave (or at least some shyt that looks realistic)
Classy but not stuck up
Outgoing, but an attention whore
Needs ambition: grad school, entrepreneurial


Not required/bonus points:

Foreign
Speaks more than one language
Worldly
Makes more money than me
5'6"
25-26




I offer a nice compensation package comparable to the industry.

Makes good money with lots of growth potential
College graduate, attending grad school in fall
Good family background
Has house
Has car
I travel
Open minded/worldly/eclectic
Easy going
Relatively decent looking (I'm not making ugly kids)
Corporate smarts
Street smarts
Can fix most shyt around the house and most car problems
 
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