Staying with a cheater

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Why do people stay with a person that cheated on them multiple times. I find this perplexing

 

[lowkey0z]

that person has some type of mental/physical dominance over them..either a breh/brehette with crazy manipulation skills or the ray rice types

that shyt do be retarded as shyt tho.."he/she cheated on me 10 times and even had a number of children with other women while we were together, but i'm still with him/her "

" oh true.."

 

[Worthless Loser]

They got too comfortable. Scared of their partner or scared of being out of their comfort zone or trying something different by associating with new people. Also tricking themselves into thinking the person will change. Then there's emotional attachment and psychological control too.

People are not mentally built the same.

 

[Bonafide]

There is a mental manipulation involved, but there is also the aspect of Loving someone wholeheartedly.

 

[NoMorePie]

Comfortability. Some aren't ready to leave so abruptly.

Some still think they have enough faith in fixing the relationship.

Heck, some are still only in the relationship for the sex.

 

[DIMES]

Really low self esteem

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Low self esteem or they just settle. A lot of these people don't think that they're worth anything better or they're not good enough to find a better option. I'm sure a lot of men and women especially have convinced themselves that the opposite sex is going to cheat no matter what so they just accept that it happens and stay. These people are delusional and sometimes straight up pathetic.

 

[thatdude954]

They feel they have invested too much time in a person to throw it all away.
or
They think the cheater is the best they can get.
or
"as long as he/she comes home" mentallity

 

[1 other person]

Never really understood this behavior in men. I almost kind of expect it in women

 

[lotteryplaya]

You have to leave the cheaters even if you are still in love and think you will be alone forever.

 

[Music Fiend]

Why do people stay with a person that cheated on them multiple times. I find this perplexing

It's not hard. Most the times I've seen it, the men have "value". In woman tho, the person in question manipulates the situation before it gets to the other person by posing as a different person.


While she with you she's kind, sweet, Christian, hopeless romantic who needs your love. But when u aren't around she's the same for everybody. While u think u got her figured she uses it against you. Now if they find out they gotta accept everything that's the opposite of what the believe.