Step-Dad checks Biological Father.

[.r.]

Not a fan of this situation, where a stranger raises another man seed. Most of this cats are weirdos, what if he starts to project onto kid some deviate shyt. Or when she hit these teenage years she starts with "You ain't my real daddy".

Not a good look, IMHO.

 

[Samson]

"You ain't my real daddy".

This is why I understand when dudes treat the step-child different from their own. I could never raise a child just for them to turnaround and say they don't recognize me as their true father. Like, no. Never going to be me.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Step Daddy doing all that isn’t conductive to the child

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Not a fan of this situation, where a stranger raises another man seed. Most of this cats are weirdos, what if he starts to project onto kid some deviate shyt. Or when she hit these teenage years she starts with "You ain't my real daddy".

Not a good look, IMHO.

So all step dad's are weirdos



Gah damm

 

[.r.]

So all step dad's are weirdos

Its called the "Cinderella effect"

Have you ever noticed alot of chicks talk about being molested as kids?

 

[Lord_Chief_Rocka]

He getting his nails done with her.......

 

[southern.girl]

Your Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ's Momma was a Single Mother.

Mary married Joseph before Jesus was born. Mary was never a single mom.

 

[King Poetic]

 

[ignorethis]

This is why I understand when dudes treat the step-child different from their own. I could never raise a child just for them to turnaround and say they don't recognize me as their true father. Like, no. Never going to be me.

I watched this happen with my mentor and the half brother of his daughter with his babymom.

The boy's dad had been locked up since before he was born, dude stepped in and raised him since he was 2 years old. He loved that kid like he was blood.

But the biological dad's family had been putting in his head "that's not your real dad, your real dad is coming back", once the bio dad got out of prison the little boy (now 8 years old) basically stopped fukking with my mentor completely (the bio dad and babymom played a big part of that).

Dude was hurt, but eventually got over it. But he's like "fukk that kid, I'm only worried about my daughter" now. And in the bio dad's defense, he has been in the boy's life ever since he's been free.

 

[Rawtid]

Its called the "Cinderella effect"

Have you ever noticed alot of chicks talk about being molested as kids?

Biological fathers molest kids, uncles, older cousins, priests, etc. It’s not pin pointed to step fathers.

 

[Samson]

It's OK for a black man to take care of a black seed. Taking care of another race's seed is no bueno cuck shyt. I will never take care of any black woman/non-black man's seed. However I don't mind taking care of a black baby boy or girl.

I know this dude that married this white chick from Indiana. She had two or three kids prior to him, she came from a rich family. Dude came to America without a dollar to his name, worked various minimum wage jobs, but he told me he dikked her down easily. He quit his job, moved in with her, plays stepdad, married without a prenup, and has two kids with her now. Her white family loves him, she's apparently crazy and high maintenance but he keeps her in check, and they appreciate that. But still, no idea how he can play stepdad to those white kids.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Its called the "Cinderella effect"

Have you ever noticed alot of chicks talk about being molested as kids?

No, no I haven't

 

[MysticMonroe]

I see this a lot. Dudes who don't give a fukk about the kid or the mom until she starts dating someone else. Then they nit pick everything the new man does.

:cough: Future Hendrix :cough: Future acted like a straight bytch when Ciara got with Russell. Complaining about Russell pushing the baby in a stroller, tweeting about child support and complaining about Ciara as a whole. He talked more about her when she got with Russel than when they were together.

But I would have to see what the father wrote and his side. Because sometimes the new person 'oversteps' their role by trying to be 'be seen being a good father/mother figure. He could be just a good dude but you never know.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

 

[.r.]

Biological fathers molest kids, uncles, older cousins, priests, etc. It’s not pin pointed to step fathers.

True, but there a greater chance of an "issue" with a step parent.

Ps I have no dog in this fight.