Most women find most men unattractive. So you think that 9-10 girl has met and been attracted to that many men? Do you really think that many men she finds attractive are talking to her as much as the random average brehs saying “Hey sexy, what’s up ma, damn, how you doing? Hey hey, what’s yo name?” Randoms sliding in DMs who live in various parts of the country aren’t men she’s excited to talk to and meet.
However, this does depend on the type of woman. If she wears revealing clothing, and is tatted up, yeah, she’s probably been around.