The woman who is aggressor of these disputes. She likes getting confrontational, she likes arguing, she likes being able to "put hands on you", she likes not backing down from the situation.
Again...I still believe the man should never hit her or put his hands on her. Thats still a weakness. Real strength would be to not hit her......but with those kind of volatile females then the best course of action is restraint. Restrain her and then get the fukk outta there. Chicks like that want to bait you into hitting them or reacting...so they can the cops, call they mom, or "Imma get my homeboy or family to come kick yo ass"

She called the cops, you locked up and now she fukking someone else anyway
You live and you learn on what females to deal with.
The irony is.... if you mess around and get a "crazy chick" (lets be real....you dont know they crazy until the first problem occurs) if you're too nice(good person).....that gives them even more reason to pop off at the mouth or put they're hands on them. The crazy chicks are less resistant to do that if they know they fukking with a real hood dude.
The issue isnt a black and white issue. Its too bad that SAS is under fire for comments that provide a full perspective on this topic.