I didn't say it wouldn't have happened 100% I just said people except at times when they want to be stupid usually avoid doing things that can result in violence. When it comes to this situation folks getting all brand new with it. Also stop strawmanning ain't nobody said she should expect a violent response at all.
No one's acting brand new; I said early on that any man who feels like they want to smack the life outta some woman (or man) who gets in their face is 100%
NORMAL. But if that person in your face is acting stupid (your words), then they're already beneath you - and this whole argument is essentially about someone in a position of power abusing that power against someone in a lower position.
Last the door lock analogy is perfect from my pov because the point in both cases is advice to minimize potential dire consequences period.
Whether the door is locked or unlocked is irrelevant when a bigger issue - in this case getting robbed - has been introduced. If you had left the door to your house unlocked and someone discovered it was unlocked yet didn't rob you, then yes - someone could justifiably lecture you about the risks of leaving your door unlocked.
But if it was unlocked and you were robbed, and you called the cops and explained what happened, would the response be exactly the same? Would they somehow penalize you for leaving your door unlocked? Would the robbers, if found, get a lighter punishment if they were to say "B-b-but officer he left his door unlocked and I needed a flat-screen so YOLO" ?
No. The person who robbed you would still get the maximum punishment, because that person was demonstrably wrong. Anyone with a scrap of sense knows that the door should've stayed locked, but literally the last thing you should say to a person who just got robbed is some condescending bullshyt about how they should've locked their door - especially if it wasn't a frequent occurrence.