Stephen A Smith Explains Why He's GMB

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What does her being a Christian and enjoying literature have to do with her unfaithfulness to her husband? How do those things correlate?

Why do y’all prop Religious women as these indestructible entities?

That didn’t give you a clue? :mjlol:

and you went? Knowing she was married?

you ain’t make a move cause you was scary.

Why do y’all play obtuse and put unfaithful woman on this moral pedestal?
I used the Christian thing cause that's the type of shyt dudes talk about when they say they have a "good girl" or the type of woman that doesn't cheat. I know religious women can be some of the biggest freaks out there.

I had no problem going to her room cause it had a big ass balcony where we could chill out on in enjoying the breeze. Like I said by that time we had talked enough on the phone and emailed that I looked at us as good friends. I didn't make a move cause I don't shyt where I eat. With her being a coworker the last thing I'd do is try to fukk a married woman and have shyt come back on me causing me unneeded drama. Too much p*ssy in the world for that. And how am I putting an unfaithful woman on a moral pedestal by talking about how foul they can be lol.
 

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props to him for admitting he's scared to get his heart broken. tired of dudes using the played out "family court system" excuse :russell:

but he has kids though so it seems a bit too late to play the "smart and safe" game :huhldup:
Both can be true, and are true.
 

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you claim to be shocked by someone you knew in actual real life for only one dinner? dude, you didn't know shyt about them to be shocked lol. that's why people be getting caught up. want to smash asap, then be trying to claim the person changed. they didn't change, you were just in it before you knew them sufficiently!
plus why are you shocked by that a married person would cheat, when that married person is carrying on being pen pals with a random person lol. that's kinda weirdo behavior. especially if they claim to have a "crazy husband"... like..... this whole shyt doesn't make a lick of sense :what:
Between emails, IMs, and plenty of phone conversations while working on projects yes we got to know each other pretty damn well. I have A LOT of female friends where neither of us have tried to cross that line. Maybe yo goofy ass can't talk to a woman without trying to fukk.
This is on your inability to read people breh. Your assessment boils down to "they were a devout Christian" or "they were a bookworm" after spending one day with them.

What I said was correct. And I am going to prove it with the example you provided which sounds like ducktales by the way. You claim that you thought nothing of her asking you back to her apartment for drinks. It wasn't until she told you that she "wanted to smash" that you picked up on what time she was on. That is proof that you don't know how to read people's behaviour.

People who are serious about their relationships keep certain boundaries. You will identify them as the ones that don't leave bait for flirting and probing.
We were both out of state on a project staying at separate hotels in a different city. I didn't find out she wanted me to smash until months later when we had to talk for a different project and she got real flirty. I assumed from her situation of being married and how she spoke about her husband and kids that she wouldn't even be thinking about cheating like that. I looked at it like catching up with an old friend. I've kicked it with male and female coworkers in their rooms and my room before without it being a sexual thing. At the time I was on the road a lot for work and after a long day that was normal. Different relationships have different boundaries. There are plenty of couples that are okay with flirting as long as it don't go beyond that. It seems like a lot of y'all lack experience actually talking to different people.
 

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I used the Christian thing cause that's the type of shyt dudes talk about when they say they have a "good girl" or the type of woman that doesn't cheat. I know religious women can be some of the biggest freaks out there.
Them dudes mentally stunted.

Even that statement ain’t never made sense to me. The general consensus that religious women suppose to be these pillow princesses with no sexual desires/kinks stupid asl.

I had no problem going to her room cause it had a big ass balcony where we could chill out on in enjoying the breeze. Like I said by that time we had talked enough on the phone and emailed that I looked at us as good friends. I didn't make a move cause I don't shyt where I eat. With her being a coworker the last thing I'd do is try to fukk a married woman and have shyt come back on me causing me unneeded drama.
If you ain’t want to shyt where you eat, you wouldn’t have step foot in her room. Should of kept that shyt at the hotel bar lobby.
Too much p*ssy in the world for that. And how am I putting an unfaithful woman on a moral pedestal by talking about how foul they can be lol.
“Since then, I’ve looked at woman differently”

As if you were surprised this happened.
 

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So GMBrehs idolize the life lf Stephen A?! :russ:
SAY LESS :lass:
 

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This is on your inability to read people breh. Your assessment boils down to "they were a devout Christian" or "they were a bookworm" after spending one day with them.

What I said was correct. And I am going to prove it with the example you provided which sounds like ducktales by the way. You claim that you thought nothing of her asking you back to her apartment for drinks. It wasn't until she told you that she "wanted to smash" that you picked up on what time she was on. That is proof that you don't know how to read people's behaviour.

People who are serious about their relationships keep certain boundaries. You will identify them as the ones that don't leave bait for flirting and probing.
Where was that said in the post you quoted?
What does her being a Christian and enjoying literature have to do with her unfaithfulness to her husband? How do those things correlate?

Why do y’all prop Religious women as these indestructible entities?

That didn’t give you a clue? :mjlol:

and you went? Knowing she was married?

you ain’t make a move cause you was scary.

Why do y’all play obtuse and put unfaithful woman on this moral pedestal?
How is breh putting anyone on a pedestal when his posts have been disputing the notion of an archetype of "the right woman"?

Seems like an urge to uphold an ideal that isn't as solid as you want it to be.
 

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He cheated A LOT. His book was an interesting read, and every time I see him I think about the part where he fukked a pregnant woman backstage at one of his concerts. Visibly pregnant woman.
 
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Between emails, IMs, and plenty of phone conversations while working on projects yes we got to know each other pretty damn well. I have A LOT of female friends where neither of us have tried to cross that line. Maybe yo goofy ass can't talk to a woman without trying to fukk.

I am a woman and i have just as much male friends as female friends. your whole reason just goofy af. "i was shocked by a penpal's behavior so now i can't trust women":skip: grow up
 

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Why does Stephen A. Smith's opinion even matter? Dude is a sports analyst for a living. What does that have to do w/ the girl I meet at Starbucks or Target?

Us black people need to stop elevating random ppl's opinions simply because they are famous
 

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How is breh putting anyone on a pedestal when his posts have been disputing the notion of an archetype of "the right woman"?

Seems like an urge to uphold an ideal that isn't as solid as you want it to be.
buddy used all the buzzwords Christian, bible thumper, nerdiest book worm, goody two shoes even ended his post with
Since that time I been looking at all these women different.

He expected a stranger he only had brief encounters with to be faithful off of preconceived notions about the women… even though she talked about her controlling husband and invited him to her room… :skip:
 

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buddy used all the buzzwords Christian, bible thumper, nerdiest book worm, goody two shoes even ended his post with
Since that time I been looking at all these women different.

He expected a stranger he only had brief encounters with to be faithful off of preconceived notions about the women… even though she talked about her controlling husband and invited him to her room… :skip:
Those are in the types of women cats expect to be "good girls" though.

Using those phrases isn't placing any of them on a pedestal when he's stating they in fact do not belong there.
 
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