Stephen Jackson- The quickest way for the demise of a successful black man is a bitter black woman

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I legit can't believe this dude dropped literal biblical knowledge as if it was a profound, paradigm shifting Truth.

And then got people in the comments acting as if he uncovered something poignant?

Find a good woman.
Be a good man.
Create a family.
Enrich your lives.

Mindblowing game? Wtf?!

We legit cannot still be here as a people man.
most of us don't get the basic game to live a decent life. you don't see the correlation to why large numbers of black families are messed up?
 

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If you're a man, you gotta be responsible for this stuff.

Not saying women aren't and can't be, but as a man people have less sympathy for you and won't look out for you and your mistakes like this. They won't care about how bad that woman is treating you, even if it's abusive, as long as you are a man.

Gotta be smarter:yeshrug: than that. Women gonna do shyt like this, so you gotta be cautious with them.

This may sound sexist, but hey, it's not my fault that shyt is like this.

Just gotta play the hand your dealt and move accordingly.

EDIT: and yeah, this isn't specific to black women. Any woman, any person can be bitter.
 

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you in your feelings and have resorted to making a straw man argument. I thought you were better than this
:wow:

Who said anything about bitter black women being better or worse than any other bitter race of women?

Stak clearly is speaking from his own experience; he said so in the opening points of the video. Furthermore, he only deals with black women. Why would he include the random bitter indian or asian women in his diatribe? Who do u think his audience is?

stop being emotional and listen to what is actually being said. Google what “close reading” is and apply that logic here.

"STAK" GOT 5 DIFFERENT WOMEN PREGNANT...
I WOULDNT TAKE ANY ADVICE FROM THAT nikka.

I DONT THINK THE WOMEN ARE THE PROBLEM HERE...

JUST ANOTHER GROWN ASS CHILD
BLAMING OTHERS FOR THEIR
shytTY DECISIONS IN LIFE.
:devil:
:evil:

 

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My uncle told me the same thing when I was 18 :yeshrug: he had 4 different baby mamas and told me don’t make the same mistakes He did he got his CDL starting making good money and starting wilding out if y’all are really black on the coli I’m sure one of your older Relatives told y’all the same thing he isn’t bitter or a clown he just don’t want young brothers making the same mistake he made
that's what i'm saying, all these simps in here caping
 

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Nowhere in my post did I say he denies accountability.

Clearly said he acknowledges he was running here fukking everything as a shorty but I also fault the bum ass women. He’s also not a dead beat, he always had a relationship with his children even before he started making a bag

When he had a $14/hr warehouse job they ain’t hound him for child support and keep his kids from him.

Why after he turn his life around, go to school and start making a bag it becomes a problem ?:camby:
bro your entire post went over these simp ass nikkas heads. this is why black people are fukked up. it's too many ass kissing simps out here, instead of men controlling the situation. nikkas got in their bag over your cousins story and nowhere did you say anything about him blaming any women
 

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He did, I can't listen to the whole video but he specifically said "Having kids by multiple women .....bitter baby mother"

He even goes on to say have kids with just one woman and love her

Hell he should've said low class women too.
 

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"STAK" GOT 5 DIFFERENT WOMEN PREGNANT...
I WOULDNT TAKE ANY ADVICE FROM THAT nikka.

I DONT THINK THE WOMEN ARE THE PROBLEM HERE...

JUST ANOTHER GROWN ASS CHILD
BLAMING OTHERS FOR THEIR
shytTY DECISIONS IN LIFE.
:devil:
:evil:

:mindblown:

Did you watch the video? or did you just read the thread title and comment?

Stak CLEARLY stated that he is the problem and he made mistakes at least 3-4 times. He isn’t blaming anybody but himself throughout the video.

You wouldn’t take advice from the breh who is saying DONT do what I did and find you that 1 woman who loves you to build a family with?

:rudy:it’s clear u didn’t watch the clip or else you wouldn’t have made this post
 

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Meh. All women have the propensity to become bitter when the relationship sours, not just black women. If you’re in the white collar world, just ask the middle aged white male divorcee. :pachaha:

Now, is there more baseline animosity toward black men by black women compared to the gender dynamics within other races? Amongst the younger generation, looks like it...:manny:
 

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He stated nothing but facts but I'm not going to go deeper but my mother was the first black women that I heard say black men anit shyt ....I'm leave it at that cause he could have went deeper .
we gotta address how many black women have this weird, deep seated hatred and anger towards black men. this is a reality.
 

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He's repeating what USED to be the normal message that was taught to us 60 years ago
regarding how to build successful families and communities.

One wife/One husband/precious children only from that bond.

The 1960s happens, and black people followed the extreme, destructive white habits of the Sexual Revolution like we created it.

Sex is not meant to be our regular hobby or pastime.

And in the black matriarchy we have, too many children unfortunately have become pawns for control.

It is difficult to see how this gets turned around.
directly correlates to all the dust in the community. women cannot run a society.
 

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Nowhere in my post did I say he denies accountability.

Clearly said he acknowledges he was running here fukking everything as a shorty but I also fault the bum ass women. He’s also not a dead beat, he always had a relationship with his children even before he started making a bag

When he had a $14/hr warehouse job they ain’t hound him for child support and keep his kids from him.

Why after he turn his life around, go to school and start making a bag it becomes a problem ?:camby:

So his kids should get the same amount they got when he was making $14/hr? He is making 6 figures and he should still be paying pennies for his kids??? Does that really make sense??

Just because you do better in life does not mean your past suddenly disappears.
 

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most of us don't get the basic game to live a decent life. you don't see the correlation to why large numbers of black families are messed up?
Most of us don’t get it because we don’t see/witness it nor do we listen to understand when something we are unfamiliar with is being told to us. It took me a while to understand why the old heads were giving me advice and it was particularly because they saw a pattern in me which I was unaware of at the time.

Most people thought Coronavirus was a hoax or unreal until they see people they know affected by it. I didn’t know the difference in wealth until I was around those types of people.
 

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Most of us don’t get it because we don’t see/witness it nor do we listen to understand when something we are unfamiliar with is being told to us. It took me a while to understand why the old heads were giving me advice and it was particularly because they saw a pattern in me which I was unaware of at the time.

Most people thought Coronavirus was a hoax or unreal until they see people they know affected by it. I didn’t know the difference in wealth until I was around those types of people.
facts. but most black people are bull-headed with no real desire or skill for introspection or self awareness. hell most people are, so i definitely see your perspective
 

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If that’s how you feel just tell me women aren’t equal to men. Because what you said here means you hold men to a higher standard than women

And I agree with that premise btw :yeshrug:

If a man is complaining about how bitter sister's are holding him back due to decisions he had plenty of control over, then yeah I'm gonna say it's on him.

Same way I'd say it about a sister if they were the one complaining.
 
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