Stop being the boring guy

[RennisDeynolds]

Why none of these "dating coaches" can tell you where to pick up a woman who has contracting/mechanic skills?


I need shyt around the house fixed and repaired. I'm not tryna do it myself .



"Bae you put that shelf up yet ? Don't forget to change my oil babe "



Before any of yall "manly men" come @ me, it's 2022. People want parity and equality. Chores for all

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Somewhere in a bunch of marketing offices...
plans are being made for spring and summer....

 

[UpNext]

I'll be an incel before I reduce myself to being a female's main source of amusement and entertainment.

 

[Shadow King]

He's not wrong. You can't do stuff every week. You need down time. You can also still do simple shyt. Go to a comedy club. Find a cool bar you can be a regular at on Fridays or Saturdays. Take short weekend road trip. Go to a museum. Find some cool pop up shops. Say to her that over the next year the two of you are going to eat at all the establishments, along the stretch of highway the two of you always ride down. Make a game out of it. Even if you're a homebody, and your girl is a homebody, if you do this basic shyt she will fukking love you for taking her on at least some sort of adventure.

You said the bolded but then proceeded with the rest. Which one?

Or....be yourself, stay in shape, stack your bread, and achieve your goals and stop chasing women, because at the end of the day, no amount of trim will make you happy

It's not about chasing, it's about the fact that it's unrealistic to expect an adult male to mentally prepared to go years without a release with a woman. Now you're going to say that "if a man does these things, p*ssy should be automatic". But in the dating/sexual market of 2023, it is not.

At some point 99.9999% of men will yield to the macrolevel expectations in some capacity unless they commit to soft/hardcore P4P.

 

[grendelprime]

I mistakenly read the title as “don’t be the boring gay”. I thought to myself, “yeah, those are the worst gays…he’s right”
I reread, and here we are

 

[Shadow King]

I'll be an incel before I reduce myself to being a female's main source of amusement and entertainment.

No you wouldn't

 

[Mike Nasty]

This thread is a great reminder to younger brehs, that you aren't competing against 100% of men, you're competing against 20% because 80% are choosing not to play.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

This thread is a great reminder to younger brehs, that you aren't competing against 100% of men, you're competing against 20% because 80% are choosing not to play.

So true. I have friends that have COMPLETELY given up. It's pretty sad really.

 

[Weaver31]

live your life for you, if a woman wants to come along with what you're already doing then so be it. but there is NO GUARANTEES TO GETTING p*ssy outside of straight up prostitution. We have to stop selling men on the idea that there is a guaranteed formula because once a dude complete the formula and still not getting the women he wants he's going to snap. You're not entitled to p*ssy just because you check off some boxes.

AMEN!

 

[Brandsdale]

just some redpill nikkas that just needed some content to upload for the day

 

[Commish]

"An attractive woman without a personality is like a Ferrari without an engine. However, it still feels good to be inside one"

A lot of "attractive" women with no hobbies do have dry personalities. Women like this live vicariously through other men cause they don't have much going on with their life.

I understand as a man its our job to introduce women to our world and give her experiences. At the same time, a woman who doesn't put in the work is a lazy employee.

Yeah. For me, it takes two to tango. I just don't believe that a man can do it all. He may have to take initiative and get the ball rolling, but a woman simply gotta put some work in..

 

[Weaver31]

I love the coli....threads like this always generate numbers

 

[Koli_Kat]

This thread is a great reminder to younger brehs, that you aren't competing against 100% of men, you're competing against 20% because 80% are choosing not to play.

There's a difference between interacting with women and choosing to be an amusement park for a bytch.

Brehs are definitely shooting there shot and interacting. Rolling out the red carpet for a women that guarantees you nothing in return...not so much.

 

[Commish]

You can be yourself and adapt. Make yourself more presentable. You might actually like the more outgoing changes. Ever think about that?

Everything shouldn't be through a 'war with women' lens fellas. There are levels to all this. It's not black or white. And improving yourself isn't a bad thing. Or make you less of yourself. That's probably one of the most negative things I have ever heard. No lie.

I am all for self improving. That's a given. But, it can't be one sided. I don't believe a successful relationship happens where only the man or woman does everything and the other does little to nothing.

I know for me, my lady put in the work to help make our relationship flourish. She didn't come into our relationship expecting the world while kicking back. She came into the fold with the right frame of mind and because of that we bonded and got the ball rolling...

Lastly, I believe that not everyone is meant to be together. I look at it similar to reading Yelp reviews. A restaurant may have 4 to 5 stars which may capture my attention, but once I read some reviews, there is always a few customers who vote 1 to 3 stars for a host of reasons.

Point is, a restaurant can't please everyone for everyone's palate is different or their experience with that place will be different. Perception is reality.

Men certainly have their roles and responsibilities. But, women also have roles and responsibilities as well.

 

[zerorequiem]

Doing shyt with the sole purpose of obtaining women is the wrong way to live. There's nothing wrong with being boring brehs.