Stop caring about looks so much

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Thanks, for this example I don't care what a girl brings to the table if she doesn't make you do :ohlawd: when she walks through the door then there are going to be some problems.





Oh, ok


Why do people think like this. If the girl is doesn't make you :ohlawd::whoo: :noah:

You are not going to be satisfied

I'm a red blooded male, one woman can't satisfy me sexually. :takedat:
 

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i'm not saying blacks don't age, but i think part of the age obsession some of you have is from too much exposure to whiter groups that age quickly because they have less melanin.
while this
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might go to this in 10 years
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still looks like
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:whoa:

Britney has many issues and Lindsay is or was a drug addict which probably caused them to age faster.

Kelly and Beyonce had much smoother lifes which probaly helped retain their looks :ehh:

I hardly ever hear about Kelly or Beyonce ever taking major Ls but Britney and Lindsay L's are well known.
 
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Britney has many issues and Lindsay is or was a drug addict which probably caused them to age faster.

Kelly and Beyonce had much smoother lifes which probaly helped retain their looks :ehh:

I hardly ever hear about Kelly or Beyonce ever taking major Ls but Britney and Lindsay L's are well known.

:whoa: its a fact that melanin helps people age more gracefully :wtf: and who doesn't have issues.

phylicia rashad did drugs and lived a wild life. she looks younger than lindsay who is probably 1/3 her age :scusthov:
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I met this girl earlier this year. Damn near perfect. SHe would cook for me. Wasn't too clingy if I told her I was watching the game or something she would just leave me alone and just say "Ok call me when you done" When we went out to eat she would even pay for both our meals most of the time. :yes:

But looks wise she was just average. Like she looked good with makeup on and when she was all dressed up. But without it she was just ok. :mjpls:

I had to tell her like 3 weeks ago I can't do this no more. My brother and cousin be calling me a dumbass :laugh:

If I was with her I knew I would probably cheat :manny:

damn bruh, you fucked it up for the next dude. because of you she's gonna turn into the angry/bitter woman that everyone on the coli complains about lol
 

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I think this is the problem with most dudes.

Like, I think a lot of dudes (and women) could solve their problems with the opposite sex if they learned to look past looks. Dudes saying good women don't exist, women saying good men don't exist. Uhh, no.

You mean to tell me, out of a world of 7 billion people, out of a country of 300 million, you can't find 1 person to do right by you? Nah. You're saying you've never turned down or over looked someone simply because of the way they looked? The reality is, you have. Which is why I :what: complainers and the people on here who say good women aren't available. Most are chasing after people who look good while bypassing things that are actually good for them.

You really want people to believe that good women are so rare? Nope. You've just passed up on all of them. Every dude ain't meant to have a fine chick nor can every dude handle one.
 

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I think this is the problem with most dudes.

Like, I think a lot of dudes (and women) could solve their problems with the opposite sex if they learned to look past looks. Dudes saying good women don't exist, women saying good men don't exist. Uhh, no.

You mean to tell me, out of a world of 7 billion people, out of a country of 300 million, you can't find 1 person to do right by you? Nah. You're saying you've never turned down or over looked someone simply because of the way they looked? The reality is, you have. Which is why I :what: complainers and the people on here who say good women aren't available. Most are chasing after people who look good while bypassing things that are actually good for them.

You really want people to believe that good women are so rare? Nope. You've just passed up on all of them. Every dude ain't meant to have a fine chick nor can every dude handle one.

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Man looks are cool. Sure you get to brag about how good your girl looks but that's purely cosmetic. I guarantee people going around flaunting a dime piece are struggling with her personality behind closed doors. It's only so much you can do...when you grow older and that dime is depreciating, you're gonna have everything other than looks to depend on. A woman that has her head on straight will always be attractive than a woman that is purely looks. If you can get both :win:
 

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damn bruh, you fucked it up for the next dude. because of you she's gonna turn into the angry/bitter woman that everyone on the coli complains about lol

I tried bruh :noah:

But if I didn't feel the same way she did its no reason for me to lead her on. The longer I waited to do it...... the more she would be hurt.
 

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Telling men to focus on what's on the inside is one thing. I can cosign that. Telling men that they should pick less attractive women because they are "easier" to get with and/or keep? Sorry but it makes you guys sound insecure.
 

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im going through this now. met this really good girl, she been doing a lot for me, but me being stupid im not in to it as much because i dont feel like shes up to my make believe standards ive created for myself.

its sad im gonna fukk this up for being shallow, shes actually a cute girl but i just wanna have this wildly hot girl which actually has done nothing for me in the past when ive had em.

:snoop:

:manny:
 

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Only thing I agree with is that nikkas should stop seein looks as the most important thing but that just comes with time....I passed on alot of cute chicks who wuz good women too...but I wuz young and my idea of upgrading wuz getting a better looking chick who may not have had better qualitys or been cooler at all,just prettier:snoop:...

But we wuz both young so women who are good right outta highschool ain't hard to find,they ain lived yet so who's to say they wouldn't have turned to shyt:manny:

Some of this pretty women being bytches comes from nikkas locations I think...when u start to travel more and get out more you'll see its just a myth....I can say here in Kansas City a lot of these super bad bytches can be stuck up,and all seem to know and have "hung with" one Chiefs player,all the dope boys and rich nikkas fightin over that level of chicks here,they expect that paper or for u to simp they azz....But I know when I meet women from places like Cali,Texas,Atlanta and places known for the abundance of bad bytches:noah:...thos pretty women are sweet and humble as fuk:ohhh:....I wish we could drop every woman in those citys for a week so they can really put they fineness in perspective....a lot of these regular hos runnin round in Kansas City and other places would barely get looked at in those places,and they could come home humbled.:myman:

U gotta take it on a case by case,its cool bad chicks here too,but I'm just sayin its more rare in sum places than others,just to give an explanation on why nikkas may have different perspectives....bytches that ain't shyt come in all packages.
 

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Nope.
I don't see the problem. Isn't that what people are attracted to first? There still aren't universal standards when it comes to looks anyway.
 

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im going through this now. met this really good girl, she been doing a lot for me, but me being stupid im not in to it as much because i dont feel like shes up to my make believe standards ive created for myself.

its sad im gonna fukk this up for being shallow, shes actually a cute girl but i just wanna have this wildly hot girl which actually has done nothing for me in the past when ive had em.

:snoop:

:manny:

Don't do that...just have both:myman: Once u have sex with the hot girl you'll be able to make an informed decision...but not until then.
 
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