Stop caring about looks so much

Ronnie Lott

#49erGang
Joined
Jun 12, 2012
Messages
63,165
Reputation
10,380
Daps
225,542
I do agree that looks are not the only thing one should focus on. Just relying on a bytches looks is shallow. BUT. I still believe that there are plenty of attractive females out there with great personalities/good overall qualities. I don't think peple should automatically lower their standards in order to lessen their chances or being cheated on or to find a "good person."

I have seen many cases where a person gets with someone and they may like/love the person for who they are, but in reality they are not attracted to their spouse. This causes people to potentially cheat. A certain amount of resentment sets in and 1 person feels like they are better than their spouse looks wise.

I know this fine azz female, she had a boyfriend that always cheated on her. Homeboy was some fly/ball playin nygga. They break up, and months later I see the same chick with this short/fat/out of shape dude, the nygga was lowkey balding. Looked like a real lame. She was a definite come up for him.. she was way out that nyggaz league. She told me that she knows he not typically her type, but he "was a good guy" that she didn't have to worry about him cheatin on her.:manny:

The cold part is that nygga, ended up bein hella abusive, crazy and possesive to the point that she had to get a restrainin order. Yikes. So much for him bein a good guy. My point is having average looks don't gaurantee u a good relationship.
 

Still Benefited

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
44,515
Reputation
9,799
Daps
108,100
I do agree that looks are not the only thing one should focus on. Just relying on a bytches looks is shallow. BUT. I still believe that there are plenty of attractive females out there with great personalities/good overall qualities. I don't think peple should automatically lower their standards in order to lessen their chances or being cheated on or to find a "good person."

I have seen many cases where a person gets with someone and they may like/love the person for who they are, but in reality they are not attracted to their spouse. This causes people to potentially cheat. A certain amount of resentment sets in and 1 person feels like they are better than their spouse looks wise.

I know this fine azz female, she had a boyfriend that always cheated on her. Homeboy was some fly/ball playin nygga. They break up, and months later I see the same chick with this short/fat/out of shape dude, the nygga was lowkey balding. Looked like a real lame. She was a definite come up for him.. she was way out that nyggaz league. She told me that she knows he not typically her type, but he "was a good guy" that she didn't have to worry about him cheatin on her.:manny:

The cold part is that nygga, ended up bein hella abusive, crazy and possesive to the point that she had to get a restrainin order. Yikes. So much for him bein a good guy. My point is having average looks don't gaurantee u a good relationship.

:haha: he probaly wuz a good guy but he probaly never had nobody as bad as her and wuznt bout to lose her:russ:...I think my sister hit her early 30's and settled,she never wuz shallow and had long relationships but her college sweetheart cheated and she wouldn't give em another chance....then her next dude went to jail on a murder sumbody in jail snitched and said he did yrs after the fact....I like her step husband but I can tell he can't even believe he got my sister....nikka tried to marry her quick as hell,and she finally agreed a yr later....I see trouble in the future if she try to leave:mjpls: I'm lookin for bruises every time I see her...I don't think shed put up with that but when women get old they put up with more a lot of times,they wouldn't have in they youth.
 

Chris.B

Banned
Joined
Jun 22, 2012
Messages
18,921
Reputation
-4,656
Daps
21,896
How many of you self-righteous "looks are not important" will marry this?
6a00d8341c0dc653ef0120a926eba5970b-800wi
 
Top